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reallynow48 wrote:Thats what I was told by my and several different doctors up front. YOU WILL NEVER HAVE A SEXUALLY DRIVEN OR HAVE AN ERECTION, without the use of the pump for the rest of your life. Please explain these urges. I would like to know what they are.

reallynow48 wrote:i am only expressing what I know about implants and what I am experiencing with my own. I have seen no man on here post a pic of his "better than before" penis. I have not seen one man explain penile size and show real penile size with a ruler. A before and after pic would suffice. I have not seen any man on here boast or brag about his new large bionic love muscle. I have already talked to three women already, not telling them I had one, and each one told me they would have NO interest in being with a guy with a pumped up penis. They said it would take away all the excitement for them................getting a man sexually excited, watching his penis grow, feeling it throb, etc. Fellas that shit ain't happening no more after an implant. I wish people on online chat would just tell the truth, and not try to make others think of unrealistic goals. I know what my doctor and others have told me about the sensations, urges and whatever else i need to know about it.

defiant wrote:

reallynow48 wrote:i am only expressing what I know about implants and what I am experiencing with my own. I have seen no man on here post a pic of his "better than before" penis. I have not seen one man explain penile size and show real penile size with a ruler. A before and after pic would suffice. I have not seen any man on here boast or brag about his new large bionic love muscle. I have already talked to three women already, not telling them I had one, and each one told me they would have NO interest in being with a guy with a pumped up penis. They said it would take away all the excitement for them................getting a man sexually excited, watching his penis grow, feeling it throb, etc. Fellas that shit ain't happening no more after an implant. I wish people on online chat would just tell the truth, and not try to make others think of unrealistic goals. I know what my doctor and others have told me about the sensations, urges and whatever else i need to know about it.

[color=#4000FF]you must not be reading our jouranal post or been to the sick pic thread.[/color]
I get what you’re saying man but with all due respect, those are some weak-ass, superficial, inhumane women you know. I’ve asked more women and none of them said they would care, as long as it worked and if they loved them, what does it matter - the man can still function. We live in an imperfect world and this is a solution for many men. So please stop being so negative about it, dude. They make broken penises work again. The sensation should remain the same. Length loss is common but with good surgeons, limited. With cycling it can improve further. Most importantly though, they give back a man his confidence and ability. And any woman that can’t love a man just because he’s gone through something tragic, is a piece of shit anyway and not a woman I’d certainly want to be with long term.

Greg1956 wrote:reallynow48,
I believe success with anything in life comes from a positive attitude and hope. You seem to have none of either. I had ED for 30 years and was told it was in my head. I never gave up hope or looking for a way to overcome it.

You say you were told you would never have natural feelings and sensations again after implant. My surgeon said just the opposite. My surgeon never promised me a big penis. All he said is he was confident it would be similar to my pre-implant stretched flaccid length. When I saw it for the first time after surgery it was partially pumped and was that length so I figured the doc was right and that would be my size. Now, after several months of healing it is almost 1 1/2" longer and that is simply from getting it fully pumped. I still can potentially get a longer penis over time with use and cycling.

You say there are no pix here showing this. Look up my posts. I have shown quite a few pix from before and after. You say no women want a guy with an implant. Ready Dustyknox posts about women he had great sex with and they did not even know he had an implant. Now he found a woman he wants more that a one night stand with and told her and she is supportive and grateful he shared the news with her.

You just seem defeated and as long as you are I don't see much hope for change. There is a phrase, "mind over matter" and I think you can help yourself by looking for positivity. I wouldn't be surprised if when you asked women about their feelings on implants you made it sound so horrible they would be fools to say it would. Be OK.

I hope you will see another doctor, possibly go to therapy, and look for all of the highly positive results here at FT that you apparently have missed. When I logged on here the first time I saw both positive and negative comments, but chose to focus on the positive and it got me excited about my potential future. Now I am living the life I dreamed about. For you to say we have to prove something to you is ridiculous. If you want to continue with your "woe is me" attitude, you are doing yourself a huge disservice. Go after what you want rather than finding excuses.

Greg