My advice is to not get an implant

[ready2go]

Mark, it's awful you're having this hard of a time with your implant. I can't imagine how hard this is for you. Questions for you:

Have you ever had a normal sexual relationship with a woman? When was the last time?

If the answer is "never" or "years ago", I think you need to make sure you at least try to have one before you make a decision. Find a willing woman, even if you have to pay her. Make sure she understands about your implant and how difficult it's been for you, and have sex. Whether it's great or it's awful, you'll have a better handle on where things are with your situation.

If you decide to remove the implant and replace it with nothing, It's a quick road to atrophy and you will be left with no options. I'm not saying don't do it, because that's your decision, but really understand the consequences.

Even if you choose that, it doesn't mean you have to be alone. There are plenty of women out there who really want companionship and a little romance, but aren't interested in sex. You can get out there and find them.

Whatever you choose, I think you'll benefit immensely from some good talk therapy with a professional to work out what's really going on and what's driving your feelings.

If he tells a woman he has an implant and his dick stays hard 24/7 no matter how many times she cums on it , she will first look astonished ,then a big ol smile will appear on her face and 3rd, she will want to break her pussy on it .
so shhhhhhhh!

[Mark1974]

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If he tells a woman he has an implant and his dick stays hard 24/7 no matter how many times she cums on it , she will first look astonished ,then a big ol smile will appear on her face and 3rd, she will want to break her pussy on it .
so shhhhhhhh!

There's a lot of self delusion on this site

[wanttokno]

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If he tells a woman he has an implant and his dick stays hard 24/7 no matter how many times she cums on it , she will first look astonished ,then a big ol smile will appear on her face and 3rd, she will want to break her pussy on it .
so shhhhhhhh!

There's a lot of self delusion on this site

Whaaa wha wha, Eeyore! Grow the freak up. You have got to be one of the biggest immature whiners I’ve ever come across in all of my many years on the net. No more attention or time wasted on you!

[Mark1974]

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If he tells a woman he has an implant and his dick stays hard 24/7 no matter how many times she cums on it , she will first look astonished ,then a big ol smile will appear on her face and 3rd, she will want to break her pussy on it .
so shhhhhhhh!

There's a lot of self delusion on this site

Whaaa wha wha, Eeyore! Grow the freak up. You have got to be one of the biggest immature whiners I’ve ever come across in all of my many years on the net. No more attention or time wasted on you!

So don't pay attention then

[ready2go]

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If he tells a woman he has an implant and his dick stays hard 24/7 no matter how many times she cums on it , she will first look astonished ,then a big ol smile will appear on her face and 3rd, she will want to break her pussy on it .
so shhhhhhhh!

There's a lot of self delusion on this site

Whaaa wha wha, Eeyore! Grow the freak up. You have got to be one of the biggest immature whiners I’ve ever come across in all of my many years on the net. No more attention or time wasted on you!

before he could try out his implant with a girl, he would first have to say hello to a potential fuck Buddy .
that is most likely his problem .
Meeting AND then TALKING to a female .
so his negative advice for all interested in a implant to just give up and die.
boo hoooo .

[Mark1974]

There's a lot of self delusion on this site

Whaaa wha wha, Eeyore! Grow the freak up. You have got to be one of the biggest immature whiners I’ve ever come across in all of my many years on the net. No more attention or time wasted on you!

before he could try out his implant with a girl, he would first have to say hello to a potential fuck Buddy .
that is most likely his problem .
Meeting AND then TALKING to a female .
so his negative advice for all interested in a implant to just give and die.
boo hoooo .

Where would you suggest I go take my wooden dick to talk to a female?

Should I talk to the bar girls in the pinay go-go bars?

[ready2go]

Whaaa wha wha, Eeyore! Grow the freak up. You have got to be one of the biggest immature whiners I’ve ever come across in all of my many years on the net. No more attention or time wasted on you!

before he could try out his implant with a girl, he would first have to say hello to a potential fuck Buddy .
that is most likely his problem .
Meeting AND then TALKING to a female .
so his negative advice for all interested in a implant to just give and die.
boo hoooo .

Where would you suggest I go take my wooden dick to talk to a female?

Should I talk to the bar girls in the pinay go-go bars?

#1 open your door #2 walk outside #3 go to where people are #4 and here is the real hard part for you . look a girl in the eyes ,SMILE [your face might crack ,i know] .if she looks back and smiles , walk over to her and say "hello" done . wash rinse and repeat if needed . thats what men do to get pussy . try it for once

[duke_cicero]

We need to be much more considerate of Mark's situation.

He's quite understandably in a lot of emotional pain—and probably some physical discomfort as well, based on what I understand of what he's shared. He’s alone. He doesn’t have anyone to vent his frustrations to. This is the place for him to do that. I understand that you may disagree with his approach; you may be annoyed with him, or be appalled somehow that his experience is different than your own. But Mark’s current circumstances are his reality.

And, we all risked being in his situation, or even one that was far, far worse. Infection takes no prisoners. When I sat in my surgeon’s office with a clipboard explaining all the potential adverse outcomes of the implant surgery, one of them was “Potential Loss of Penis (Castration).” Bad things do happen. Not to everyone. Not to even a sizable minority of patients. But they do happen.

For those of us who are so lucky as to be pain free, to be even reasonably satisfied with our IPPs and MPPs, to be free of complications whether physical, psychological, or psychosomatic: be glad for it. There's a real element of luck involved in any surgical procedure, whether that's getting a cavity filled at the dentist's office, getting a penile implant, or having a coronary bypass surgery. There’s enormous complexity in surgery, even in our modern era. Even for supposedly routine surgeries.

There is a lot of cheerleading on this forum. And not without reason. My implant has changed my life for the better. I’m so grateful for the technology, the advanced surgical techniques, the use of advanced antibiotics. I’m confident that my surgeon did everything in his power to help me. And six months in, my life is changed for the better, and hopefully for the very long term.

I am one of those cheerleaders. But I also try to be a rational one. The implant is a major commitment, a major life decision. It’s not a trivial decision. It’s one that, in all candor, requires quite a bit of bravery and risk tolerance. Especially in cases like mine and Mark’s—we paid out of pocket for the procedure. Revisions are also paid out of pocket. I’m counting down the days until Open Enrollment on November 1st here in the U.S. so I can change my insurance to cover potential implant revisions.

Mark’s experience is much different than your own. Do not castigate him for expressing his well-justified anger and frustration. Mark’s story is an important data point in the vast library of stories on this website. His anger and frustration are valuable for people doing everything in their power to perform due diligence for this major life decision. Instead of reprimanding Mark, hear him out. It’s your choice to reply. If you have nothing constructive to offer in the way of discussion or questions, it’s no loss to you to simply ignore him.

Duke

[ready2go]

We need to be much more considerate of Mark's situation.

He's quite understandably in a lot of emotional pain—and probably some physical discomfort as well, based on what I understand of what he's shared. He’s alone. He doesn’t have anyone to vent his frustrations to. This is the place for him to do that. I understand that you may disagree with his approach; you may be annoyed with him, or be appalled somehow that his experience is different than your own. But Mark’s current circumstances are his reality.

And, we all risked being in his situation, or even one that was far, far worse. Infection takes no prisoners. When I sat in my surgeon’s office with a clipboard explaining all the potential adverse outcomes of the implant surgery, one of them was “Potential Loss of Penis (Castration).” Bad things do happen. Not to everyone. Not to even a sizable minority of patients. But they do happen


For those of us who are so lucky as to be pain free, to be even reasonably satisfied with our IPPs and MPPs, to be free of complications whether physical, psychological, or psychosomatic: be glad for it. There's a real element of luck involved in any surgical procedure, whether that's getting a cavity filled at the dentist's office, getting a penile implant, or having a coronary bypass surgery. There’s enormous complexity in surgery, even in our modern era. Even for supposedly routine surgeries.

There is a lot of cheerleading on this forum. And not without reason. My implant has changed my life for the better. I’m so grateful for the technology, the advanced surgical techniques, the use of advanced antibiotics. I’m confident that my surgeon did everything in his power to help me. And six months in, my life is changed for the better, and hopefully for the very long term.

I am one of those cheerleaders. But I also try to be a rational one. The implant is a major commitment, a major life decision. It’s not a trivial decision. It’s one that, in all candor, requires quite a bit of bravery and risk tolerance. Especially in cases like mine and Mark’s—we paid out of pocket for the procedure. Revisions are also paid out of pocket. I’m counting down the days until Open Enrollment on November 1st here in the U.S. so I can change my insurance to cover potential implant revisions.

Mark’s experience is much different than your own. Do not castigate him for expressing his well-justified anger and frustration. Mark’s story is an important data point in the vast library of stories on this website. His anger and frustration are valuable for people doing everything in their power to perform due diligence for this major life decision. Instead of reprimanding Mark, hear him out. It’s your choice to reply. If you have nothing constructive to offer in the way of discussion or questions, it’s no loss to you to simply ignore him.

Duke

hhmmm , i was alone when i had my implant ,technically . for one year . i went from the Philippines to india alone and back ,and recovered on my own . No one to hold my hand . i didn't need it . his experience is the same as mine . his dick wasn't working on demand ,so he got a malleable . that's what i did . The difference is, i didn't say i feel like i was turned into a pussy . etc etc
i had no such problems , i did on the other hand ,go bang 4 different chicks over that time , and chase others . and enjoyed it . 2 were fwb's who kept coming back for more .
i have to say realistically ,marks problem is his personality . Maybe due to physical issues ,;ike lack of testosterone , Depression ? Or just a bad attitude. but blaming an implant is not going to change his current state of mind . or help others .
i think this is a case of severe over acting drama episode.
for fock sake , a malleable is just about bullet proof .
and i like pulling my dick up and sleeping on it . it feels good to have a hard on whenever i need one .
oh ,and i had a motorcycle accident where i snapped my lower leg , i landed on my stomach , and the motorcycle on top of me .And the malleable implant came out unscathed . its still going strong .

[LastHope]

With the best juicy porn+sex toys or passionate hookups or hot escorts or sexy partners and assuming no complications like repeated infections or frequent breakdowns or heavy fibrosis or erosion or chronic pain, the implant can feel like the greatest gift of biomedical science.

Without the above genital and/or self esteem stimulation tools, the implant will feel like an unnecessary burden as the cost benefit ratio may not add up. I fully respect Mark's position for his personality and his cost benefit ratio.