Waynetho wrote:irishguy wrote:Does the friend of your wife’s husband know about all this? Like are they in an open relationship?
No, the husband does not know, but the husband had a series of infidelity indiscretions about 14 years ago in which he took his then 6 year old son along to visit his "lady friend", and the son watched cartoons in one room while he "played" in the other room with the other woman. My wife's GF found out from her son and had papers drawn up for a divorce but locked them away when he swore it would never happen again and grovelled. At the club on Saturday, without my wife's consent, this same "husband" grabbed her boob, to which she slapped his hand away and I schooled him on a little think in the community called "CONSENT", advising him that non-consent violations could get him a permanent ban from the club or worse (charges filed in some cases).
Does he know, NOPE. Do I care, NOPE. Does she care, Hell NO.
He's done it to himself and those papers are still waiting to be turned in to a lawyer, with the strength of a six year old's statements of being used as a pawn to help him get away with cheating.
Quite a little soap opera there. I wonder how this guy got (gets?) women on the side with a penis that does not satisfy his wife?
Of course, she could be giving you only HER side of that 16 year-old story.
Also, it would be a heck of a thing if HE found out his wife played around with YOU and filed papers on HER (and you)!
Despite your wife's trust in her girlfriend, this is a situation that screams DANGER!
And, to my mind, a recent infidelity (the wife's) trumps an old one which she did not act on for 16 years. Legally speaking (and I am no lawyer any more than I am a Doctor).
I am happy that you have this opportunity to give relief and joy to this woman, but sometimes these intrigues do not end the way we imagine. Be careful. And if you can't be careful, name it after me.
