Re: this site is brutal for us smaller guys
Posted: Tue Feb 18, 2020 1:51 pm
It is interesting that with all of the articles/discussion concerning vaginal length and how short it is in general and indicating therefore that small-sized guys can satisfy most women, no mention is made of girth. But some have acknowledged the importance of girth (bigger girth) in making a woman feel filled up and satisfied and that is widely accepted. That is a factor that none of these vaginal length discussions addresses.
I also think that the longer the penis is, the thicker it tends to be. That unfortunately argues that longer penises are indeed better and more satisfying than smaller sized ones.
Also, no discussion is made concerning how bigger penises are more attractive to look at and more satisfying to hold in her hands. And of course, no one mentions the limitations of sex positions that small guys may engage in.
I keep coming back to this to address the inadequacy of these vaginal length discussions in their attempt to make small sized guys feel better. These guys know these things already and so, when you attempt to make them feel “better” about their penises by ignoring other things to consider, they may made to feel that “these guys don’t really understand” their problem. And discussions of “get over it” makes them feel the small penis is not the problem – it is their inadequate psychological health and esteem - rather than the real “problem” – a penis that is too small.
And some, including the OP, discuss ways of making it bigger. That only substantiates that it is a real problem that may be “fixed”. The hell that guys put themselves through with jelqing and other measures which are always do nothing/anything worth the effort is tragic.
I think it always better to hear and know the “full truth” about anything then truths which tell only part of the story.
There are no easy answers for this problem. One useful thing pointed out is that he must find a woman who matches his physical capabilities and accept that as a necessity for a full sex life.
Something not previously mentioned but that may somewhat compensate is the use of a dildo to help his partner achieve the feeling of fullness she desires.
I also think that the longer the penis is, the thicker it tends to be. That unfortunately argues that longer penises are indeed better and more satisfying than smaller sized ones.
Also, no discussion is made concerning how bigger penises are more attractive to look at and more satisfying to hold in her hands. And of course, no one mentions the limitations of sex positions that small guys may engage in.
I keep coming back to this to address the inadequacy of these vaginal length discussions in their attempt to make small sized guys feel better. These guys know these things already and so, when you attempt to make them feel “better” about their penises by ignoring other things to consider, they may made to feel that “these guys don’t really understand” their problem. And discussions of “get over it” makes them feel the small penis is not the problem – it is their inadequate psychological health and esteem - rather than the real “problem” – a penis that is too small.
And some, including the OP, discuss ways of making it bigger. That only substantiates that it is a real problem that may be “fixed”. The hell that guys put themselves through with jelqing and other measures which are always do nothing/anything worth the effort is tragic.
I think it always better to hear and know the “full truth” about anything then truths which tell only part of the story.
There are no easy answers for this problem. One useful thing pointed out is that he must find a woman who matches his physical capabilities and accept that as a necessity for a full sex life.
Something not previously mentioned but that may somewhat compensate is the use of a dildo to help his partner achieve the feeling of fullness she desires.