Postby merrix » Tue May 02, 2017 10:56 pm
I am surprised to see how childishly sensitive many people in this thread are, and how you react so strongly and get so offended by the 'skin-covered dildo' analogy.
It actually is a pretty good description of what we all have.
A dildo is often made of plastics, it is made to penetrate a vagina.
So is your implant. Made of plastics, you use it to penetrate your partner's vagina (or ass in CTR5000's case).
And it is in your dick so it is skin-covered. Pretty damn good analogy.
And if you get offended by that, you got some self esteem issues about your impotency.
And I still think nobody really answered the question. Even the last attempt from CTR5000, despite saying you would answer the question actually asked, didn't go very well.
Of course an implant is not INTENDED for a man with a functioning penis.
That was not the question.
The question was whether we implanted bastards feel the implanted dick performs better (if we would trade it), and who has a partner who prefers the implanted dick to a natural one.
I think it is a damn good question. Too bad none of you seem to be able to look beyond your low self esteem and actually answer it.
I am not the best suited to answer it since I always had some form of ED. With the exception of 1-2 months immediately after my sclerotherapy in 2015. And based on that short period of time, I will say that definitely I prefer a natural dick over the implant.
The so called advantages with an implant over a natural dick which many keep raving about (erection on demand and can stay hard forever), are not so much of advantages in my opinion.
A natural dick doesn't get hard on demand. But it gets hard when needed which is enough. Who needs an erection when you brew coffee, read the news, take a shower? You need one when you are going to have sex in some form and a natural dick will give you that. Anything beyond that is no advantage in my book.
The stay hard forever issue is sort of nice, but not enough to make the implant superior over a natural dick. In my opinion sex is some sort of trade off between quantity (duration) and quality. Good sex is about building up to a climax, have your orgasm, and then it is over. For a while. That is the benchmark, that is how it is supposed to be. Just keep on going after orgasm with a soft glans doesn't add much for me. Sure, it can be nice to keep going to give my partner an orgasm, but if I want her to have an orgasm, I could have made sure she had hers before I got mine. No need for an implant to do that.
So the disadvantages outweigh the advantages. Major disadvantage is just the lack of the feeling of getting hard the natural way. Also this pulsating, throbbing feel in the dick is missing. Then of course, having to pump, missing the feeling of getting the erection while getting turned on or even stimulated, etc.
An implant is a great cure for us impotent bastards, but can not really match the way nature designed us. Or attempted to design us.
Does my partner prefer an implanted dick to a natural one? No. She prefers my implanted dick a million times to my semi-functioning, one-day-on-one-day-off natural dick. But not over a natural dick which works well. For the same reasons as I don't prefer it over a natural dick. The advantages are not that important. For my wife, the getting hard on demand is useless. If she wanted to have sex, got undressed and pulled my dick out - I would have gotten hard the natural way if my dick was working. Now she has to wait for me to pump up. That's a disadvantage, not an advantage.
The go on forever part - again, she is not interested in grinding for hours. She is interested in good, quality sex. What she wants is something a natural dick would have provided. Even though we're both very, very fit for our age (well not only for our age. We're just very fit), the way we want to have sex - intense - we just cannot keep going like that for hours. Too hard work...
But it is what it is. Plastics in our dicks that lets us get hard and stay hard. And the implant is a great fix for a limp dick. As close to the real thing as it gets. It beats the crap out of what I used before - pills. The pills gave me less reliability and higher variation in terms of erection quality. They gave me no spontaneity. And I needed to constantly remember to bring my pills whenever i went somewhere and there was a chance the opportunity of sex would present itself.
So I am super happy with my implant. But would I trade a normal working dick for my implant? Yes.
Do walk around feeling sorry for myself about it? No. I am happy with what I have, it works great.
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merrix on Wed May 03, 2017 3:27 am, edited 3 times in total.
43 yo, ED forever from VL
Fit and active
Implanted December 2015
Titan XL 24 cm, no RTEs
Dr. Eid
Activated day 13
Sex after 3 weeks
Gained length and girth
So far It works perfectly
Only one advice: Find a world class surgeon