LGXDownunder wrote:Definitely all good and normal in my experience Elbow. You'll get there with more time, healing, cycling and sex.
At first I couldn't orgasm either and it took quite a few attempts before I got even a mild climax. It was also significantly painful at times. No matter how attractive or skillful your partner is, or how enjoyable the experience is otherwise, there is just not enough erotic stimulation going on when it hurts and you are sore.
Yes keep experimenting with inflation levels. Early on I found it better to be less than 100%. Maybe around 80% from memory.
But after a lot of cycling and further healing I really prefer it as hard as possible now.
Even if I think I'm already maxed out I'll often stop during sex and try to inflate further with mini pumps.
Yes any numbness can obviously reduce the sensations that cause orgasm. I had it the same as you on the underside near the base of my shaft.
I think it probably did contribute to lack of orgasm initially, but over the past couple of months has now improved to being more superficial, as most feeling has returned. I now orgasm with nearly 100% success rate, if that's actually a thing.
It's great that you've found such a supportive sex partner who really wants to get you off. She sounds like a keeper
Downunder, I agree with you
For a good while it did hurt when fully inflated but now I like it pumped to the max and my wifey likes it as hard as I can get it.
I'll do the same thing, during sex I'll pull out and give it some more pumps and then go back to banging my wifey with my bionic weapon. It's the Best!
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