Unexpected Benefits

[CigareVolant]

No more cold shrinkage. No more unexpected erection causing embarrassment. (If I have an embarrassing erection, it's because I decided to!)

Wait... were you having "unexpected erections" pre-op? Isn't the hole reason of getting an implant the fact that you can't have erections in the first place?

I could get hard, I just couldn't stay hard. My erections would appear, but then at least half the time they would disappear before I could come, especially if I went slow, which is the right thing to do for most women. High blood flow in (fortunate), high blood flow out (unfortunate). Even post-implant, the high blood flow in is a win because the glans swells and the body of the cock plumps up.

[Ephi82]

Because I had erection problems for so long, and hadn’t had a rock hard erection for so many years, I forgot a very very pleasurable feeling. That feeling is the sensation of the exterior tissues of my cock sliding along my erect shaft. What sends me into orbit is that feeling while I’m inside her vagina, in her mouth or when I see her small hand and fingers pumping my shaft! For me, this implant has dramatically improved the sensitivity of my cock and I am having orgasms every time I have sex. That was not the case pre implant.

[LGXDownunder]

I’m just a little over 4 months in so I’m still getting used to not ever losing my erection…like some others on here have shared, I’m pretty sure I had leakage issues from my twenties so there were so many things I never tried. When I got my erection it was time to use it or lose it and of course the fear of losing it would cause me to be extremely quick…I always brought my partner to an orgasm before I tried penetration - wanted to make sure she came because I didn’t go long enough for her to cum during intercourse.

But that is no longer the case. I pump up my dick when we began and spend 20-30 minutes just touching and rubbing her. We’re both 67 and she’d rather me just lightly touch/rub and massage than bring her to orgasm. And I don’t care how long I rub her - it’s a great part of our intimacy - because I’m not going to lose my erection. In the first month of intercourse I had lost a lot of sensitivity and sometimes couldn’t cum…but we’d just take a short break and begin again - I had no fear of losing my erection.

I’m 67 and my right shoulder bothers me and sometimes my lower back hurts as well. So I got my wife to sit on the edge of the bed and we had intercourse with me standing…I’d never done that before. She bought a chair for the bed room and we’ve used it a couple of times - it’s similar to standing next to the bed but she is able to put her feet on the floor and I’m on my knees (on a firm pillow to get the alignment right). Both of these positions are much easier on my shoulder and back and to be honest - they are just fun! We usually use a couple different positions every time now. I never would have tried that before out of fear of losing erection while switching positions.

My ejactulations are getting better. Early on I would cum somewhat unexpectedly. I don’t mean real quick but I guess in part to my loss of sensitivity, I wasn’t feeling it build. So my orgasms weren’t as powerful or pleasurable as they were in the past. This is getting better and I’m able to feel it building and to use my breathing to delay and maximize my orgasm.

Intercourse duration is much better but still a work in progress. As I mentioned, before the implant (and back when the pills still worked most of the time) I was so paranoid about losing my erection I would cum quickly…2 minutes or less. With the initial loss of sensitivity I had trouble cumming and would go too long for my wife’s comfort - as I mentioned, she’s not that interested in intercourse and her hip bothers her if we go more than 10 minutes. My sensitivity has/is returning so I can cum but it not as quick as it used to be. Sometimes it 5-7 minutes and sometimes it’s 10-12 minutes. Either are good with my wife - she doesn’t want me to go forever. In fact, if I’ve been doing yard work or been to gym that day, she’ll want make sure I’m not too tired because she doesn’t want me to “go forever.” It’s funny how a 67 year old woman thinks 10 minutes is forever.

Something I haven’t done is to go for a second orgasm…and I’m not sure when that wil happen. I know it won’t be back to back because my wife’s hip (and back) aren’t going to let her do that but it could be morning sex then and afternoon delight…when we take vacations we’ve always had sex every day so on the next trip Im going try two a days.

Probably the biggest thing I’m dealing with now is that I’m like a kid with a new toy and I want to play with it every day. Having a dick that works whenever I want it to has put a grin on my face. I’ve even named it -EveryReady like the battery. But I have to try to keep things reasonable because we are 67…when I hit the six week mark we had sex 4-5 times a week for the first couple of weeks and now we’re consistently hitting twice a week…that’s probably a good range for a couple of 67 year olds but I still feel like I could go every day…I was going indoor cycling before my implant and averted about 3500 miles per year over the last 3-4 years so I’m in decent shape…

Just some thoughts at four months

Great story and results Stevie . I'm probably about 6 weeks behind you recovery-wise and also still in reasonable shape physically. All is going well but we have similar issues with positions and how long my wife can last before getting uncomfortable. She is a couple of years younger than me but also has back and hip problems that restrict us a bit. Now that I have much less discomfort we are back to our usual three times a week PIV sex and I'm finding it can take me a long time to cum (well dry orgasm at least - post RP, so I can't ejaculate these days). After probably 20 minutes or more of foreplay, when we start PIV sometimes it can take me 30 minutes or more to climax, which I'm loving as it feels great but can be awkward for her. So I've been taking a break several times mid-session to let her recover, but I usually do some finger on clit stimulation to keep her wet and the pleasure and momentum going. TBH I'm also getting out of breath at times from thrusting deeply for long periods, something I never thought I'd be saying! Also loving the new toy for a whole host of reasons .

[dread1998]

Nocturne, not sure about "unexpected", but I've been surprised how often the concern crossed my mind about the erection lasting as long as I want. When we change positions, or take a short break, or I walk past a fan blowing cold air -- I'd often get that concern about the erection and have to remind myself that with the implant "I've got this"

- Chuck

man i thought i was the only one that can lose and erection because of a cool breeze from a fan lol.. if we having sex and the fan starts doing its big one on my balls its a wrap.

[Wodjathat]

What were some unexpected benefits of getting an implant, besides the obvious? And what were some positions you had quietly given up on ever performing before, that you really enjoy doing now?

* Glans and dick suddenly swell with arousal and become extremely hard, just before orgasm. Feels like a natural erection.

* Sometimes I get some spontaneous engorgement and a partial erection if aroused; and sometimes for no apparent reason at all.
It's not a boner but it feels good, and very unexpected since I had absolutely zero erectile function for 3 years post prostatectomy.

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It’s only one day after my implant so I might be jumping the gun a bit here but…..although my dick is literally black and blue it is also partially engorged. What a beautiful wonderful feeling! I sort of like it.

Better still I always feared getting nerve damage (my implant was inserted in the pubic bone region, not from the scrotum). I was also worried about the blood supply to the penis head. But whilst I was lying down thinking about future possibilities I felt the head engorge and get sensitive. It felt like a perfect half mongrel if that makes sense.

Can’t wait for things to settle down and start the cycling process

[LGXDownunder]

It’s only one day after my implant so I might be jumping the gun a bit here but…..although my dick is literally black and blue it is also partially engorged. What a beautiful wonderful feeling! I sort of like it.

Better still I always feared getting nerve damage (my implant was inserted in the pubic bone region, not from the scrotum). I was also worried about the blood supply to the penis head. But whilst I was lying down thinking about future possibilities I felt the head engorge and get sensitive. It felt like a perfect half mongrel if that makes sense.

Can’t wait for things to settle down and start the cycling process

Don't worry about the black and blue dick Wodjathat, the bruising will eventually go away. It may just be swelling this early on, but if you are getting some libido related engorgement already that sounds like a bonus. It's great that you have a very positive outlook and able to appreciate the possibilities once you can start cycling. Fairly aggressive cycling has been a game changer for me. I've gone from an uncomfortable undersized boner post op, to now a horny weapon and pretty much back to pre prostatectomy length and girth in a few months. But I'm still trying to squeeze more out of it. Best of all I'm now finally able to orgasm every time I fuck, and it feels awesome! Enjoy your journey .

[Motorheadrulz]

- No more turtlehead and having to pull it out to piss, bathe, etc.
- not embarrassed anymore at a public urinal by the turtlehead
- sometimes embarrassed getting out of a pool or hot tub
- I wake up at half staff every day
- No more sticking a needle in my cock
- the RPP killed some nerves, so I can last longer (ok, not an implant Bennie but just sayin.)
And the list goes on...

[Discovernew]

- No more turtlehead and having to pull it out to piss, bathe, etc.
- not embarrassed anymore at a public urinal by the turtlehead
- sometimes embarrassed getting out of a pool or hot tub
- I wake up at half staff every day
- No more sticking a needle in my cock
- the RPP killed some nerves, so I can last longer (ok, not an implant Bennie but just sayin.)
And the list goes on...

what is a turtlehead?

[UpNorth]

what is a turtlehead?[/quote]

I’ll tell you about a turtlehead and what happens when you don’t have one as I just experienced a few minutes ago.

Turtlehead = Your shrunk pecker that hides in your pubic mound.

What happens when you don’t have a turtlehead? Your wife turns her ass into you while sitting on your lap and you say vulgar language while trying to explain to her that you are not upset with her. Just happened and OUCH!

[Wodjathat]

It’s only one day after my implant so I might be jumping the gun a bit here but…..although my dick is literally black and blue it is also partially engorged. What a beautiful wonderful feeling! I sort of like it.

Better still I always feared getting nerve damage (my implant was inserted in the pubic bone region, not from the scrotum). I was also worried about the blood supply to the penis head. But whilst I was lying down thinking about future possibilities I felt the head engorge and get sensitive. It felt like a perfect half mongrel if that makes sense.

Can’t wait for things to settle down and start the cycling process

Don't worry about the black and blue dick Wodjathat, the bruising will eventually go away. It may just be swelling this early on, but if you are getting some libido related engorgement already that sounds like a bonus. It's great that you have a very positive outlook and able to appreciate the possibilities once you can start cycling. Fairly aggressive cycling has been a game changer for me. I've gone from an uncomfortable undersized boner post op, to now a horny weapon and pretty much back to pre prostatectomy length and girth in a few months. But I'm still trying to squeeze more out of it. Best of all I'm now finally able to orgasm every time I fuck, and it feels awesome! Enjoy your journey .

Thank you for your comments and encouragement. Right now my head (as in brain) is in a good place.

I love the honesty that people can have expressing comments and feelings whilst being anonymous. Maybe that is the best way blokes can communicate to each other. I obviously don’t know anyone but at the same time I feel a real bond with the ‘brotherhood’. No judgment, just sharing.Sort of like therapy.

I will share a little more now. All my life I was a PE man. 30 seconds was normal, 2 minutes a rare marathon session for me. Then I got ED. I must have been an absolute prick in my previous life….joke)

Now I am thinking I don’t give a stuff if I cum in 30 seconds. I know I will stay hard. I think I know after the sensitivity calms down I can keep going. I don’t give a shit about if I can cum again, it would just be a bonus. I do care about and want the woman I am with to enjoy and make use of my hard cock for her pleasure. Don’t really care if my libido doesn’t pick up in the second round,I will just fake it if I have to. Funnily enough I just am so looking forward to enjoy fucking someone for a long time and in many different positions. I have never ever once done that in my life. I’m 66 years old!
As I said earlier, I love the anonymity of this forum. I have never ever expressed thoughts like this to anyone in my whole life.