plant yes or no, big confusion in my head

[Fourtytwo00]

I'm not so sure how many people would bother with an implant at 55-60 years old just to give 5-10 minutes more to a satisfied wife which have more or less the same age. At this point is mostly a personal decision based on how you manage PDE5 side effects at high dosage. 150-200mg sildenafil for fucking 15 minutes could be annoying if you feel bad for 1-2 days. But it's your penis and she's fine.

Things start to be different if you have a younger lover or better opportunities outside your marriage and you wanna fuck them all no matter what until you're strong enough to do it. In this case ask a swinger, there are some around here. Or someone with a lifestyle close to your. With an implant you can fuck more times per week without pills side effects. If you'd like to fuck three days in a row it could be awful even with your natural penis at 200mg sildenafil daily.

[frank66665]

yes thank you Quarantadue00 you are very close to my reality, I don't have a lover but I like to go once a week to a good level Escort, they are beautiful, I pay for 30/40 minutes and I can't fuck them as I would like, I can fuck them 20 max then begins the loss of sexual strength, I would like to bang them properly but I can not and this sends me into depression, this is the reason for my being in the balance for a not insignificant decision for an implant and all that follows and what can ensue, if it worked zero like many men here it would be a much easier decision, it's easy to say tops many users say for me it was the best choice and best sex of my life if the dick was sobbing loudly or was in a coma or even dead, with these premises I would already have an implant for a year now, as far as my wife is concerned she is very attached to the family and she just has to fuck with me once a week and she just needs my cock at 70% for 10 minutes

[Username1]

There are too many factors with sex and dick functions to comment.

For me the pills, later injections worked for a while then didn’t.

The beauty of an implant is it’s easy. Works all the time for however long either party can take it …till someone says “uncle” or pause it right there, pick up later.

The intimacy is on a different level…not just during sex. Ok, that’s depends on the relationship, partner and what I, we, choose to create.

Fear is a crazy thing. Once I got past it, sex, relationships, all really, life has changed.

[DougAnd]

Frank,
Seems like you have multiple issues to deal with. The most important is your wife. If she is satisfied now, that is huge. But it doesn't mean that she will be as satisfied with your implant. Not at first. We all went through a period of growth. For weeks or months very short and oblong girth instead of round. Even today I am not as round or as big as I was naturally. Most wives don't really care. Will yours?
Cialis gave me a low grade headache for 2 days. Plus the doctor recommended that I not use it more than every other day. Fine for me, I've never been daily but the headaches didn't cut it. That could be something your wife will listen to.
I had one injection, the needle was no big deal but it made my internal penis burn and swell like it would explode. But never gave me an erection. Most guys don't have that problem.
Bottom line ask your wife if she is interested in having prolonged sex. You know like an all nighter. If yes then she might be more receptive but if no then you have your answer. Wait until medicines don't work or have severe side effects. Keep in mind that when mama is happy everybody smiles but when she's not well it takes 2 to have sex. You do the math

[frank66665]

thank you doug And I will never stop thanking you for the support received, my wife only needs 15 minutes a week, I am the sick person who punctually every week I have to go and fuck a 30/40 year old pussy, now it has become a drug for me, I feel like if physically I have a few years of sex left, when I go to these girls they have a vitality and a resistance to having sex that for me is unbearable after 15/20 minutes, sometimes I can do 25/30 minutes, from 25 to 30 the loss of erection almost always and they have to end up in my mouth, that then the cock resumes but the time is over or even if I started fucking again I wouldn't last 5 minutes and it would get again, this situation sent me into depression and made me think of an implant, if I did not have an erection or an erection of 5 minutes it would be much easier for me to opt for the implant immediately, with antonini we are left that when I am ready to call him back that we agree to do it immediately, when I come back from a sc unsatisfactory oped by a beautiful girl I want to pick up the phone and call him, but then you hear some that a cock full of blood even for 15 minutes is much better than an implant, then I see some short term revisions the hose, the pump , the cylinder, when one thing when the other and makes me want

[Flounder]

Frank,
I’m going to comment about the money because It’s said that the number one reason for divorce is fighting over finances. I recall you previously posting that an implant in Italy is only by self-payment. Quoting from one of your previous post “….50 thousand euros, it is not that everyone has so much money, in Italy there is no insurance that pays you a plant.”

You stated your wife is satisfied with 15 minutes of sex once a week which you are able to provide with a PDE5 boosted blood filled dick. So your wife probably sees no value in spending that kind of money on an implant when things are satisfactory for her. Perhaps she will become more supportive of an implant when ED worsens and she’s not satisfied anymore. And that time is probably coming sooner rather than later as you are already taking very large (potentially harmful) doses of PDE5’s. As others suggested you might try injections. If for no other reason but to say You tried everything to continue satisfying her including sticking a needle in your dick.

Moving forward with the implant now, when her mentality is everything is fine, could cause her to resent the implant maybe forever. She could blame you for spending so much money ruining the dick she liked better before as she finds fault and complains about the implant. I’m simply suggesting you might be better off waiting until she experiences some disappointments. Then she will have something to gain too and perhaps welcome the investment in an implant to keep sex in the marriage assuming she wants that. And if she’s on board, you will no longer keep on second guessing your decision.

Now my comments may be off base if your financial situation is such that 50 thousand Euro means nothing to your wife. And if she is understanding and supportive of your want to last longer with the escorts, then my comments above are totally unwarranted.

[Gt1956]

Frank66665, Flounder has a very good point of view. I've written before that I don't think women understand how an erection works. Its always been there so what got broken?
Does your wife know that PDE5 pills will quite working some day? If they quite working, will she still want sex? I hate to say this but I'm guessing that you have some big discussions coming with her in the future.
I can understand she might not like the idea of spending lots of money on something that she doesn't think is broken. Also she doesn't know that the pills will quite working.
Also, remember that just because you get an implant & can last longer. She might not want longer sessions of sex.

[frank66665]

thanks @flounder @gt1956, I replied to a user that if things go wrong you have to pay back the operation which is the highest cost, the system costs about 28 k, the more eventually things go wrong, a user said change it, then I replied we don't all have 50k to do the implant, my wife doesn't give a damn about the money, she's scared because I have to suspend cardioaspirin for more than 20 days and the cardiologist doesn't want to, and if things go wrong for the implant, but not for the money, and then she can satisfy her with the pde5, she is not a lover in having sex, she loves family, it is me who secretly going to escort and having lost erection I go home disappointed, but there are others friends who have sex with pde5 for 10 max 15 minutes and say that I am already lucky to last 20/25 minutes and that I should be satisfied, and that they would never have an implant if they lasted 20/25 minutes, I find myself in a situation that I don't know what to do, if it didn't work it would be an easy choice issima for me

[Flounder]

If I could pop a pill, tolerate the side effects, and last for 20/25 minutes, then I wouldn’t be considering an implant. I haven’t had it that good in over 10yrs.

[Fourtytwo00]

I don't remember their names but there are some swingers around here frank and you should talk with them.
As far as I understood at the moment you're not concerned in upgrading sex with your wife. She's OK and that's it. You just don't want to spoil it with a long recovery time, a bad outcome, revisions, etc. Basically you want to fuck 30 years old girls more and longer. The implant is for you, not for your wife. Swinger,s someone with a very young wife or men who likes massage with a happy ending and something more are closer to your lifestyle imho.