softtohard wrote:So....11 months have passed! Crazy!
The reason I haven’t been updating is because the outcome has been really good and I have been super busy opening my own company. I started it right away when I was able to walk again.
I have o say that the first couple of weeks felt like I would never in my life be able to run and jump again but Oh boy I was wrong. I bike, jump, run and work and do everything I did pre op. When I bike, I believe there is a mental discomfort rather then a physical discomfort.
So if you read my previous post you know that I suffer from PE and it´s is still there.
It is about the same as pre op. Light stimulation laying on my back, I´m all good but me on top thrusting is really kicking my PE off. I guess that’s just the way it is. But the great thing is that I can have a second orgasm that takes much longer to get and this is really good because now I´m free. I´m able to have sex as long as my girlfriend and me wants.
What happened after I healed was that my girlfriends’ intimacy issues became very obvious. I thought the issue was 100% me with my ED. But we are actually struggling really hard with our sexlife. We are trying to help her with her sex drive and her issues around it, but nothing has really to do with my dick anymore.
I can be ready to go in 20 seconds. She knows when I´m pumping up…we just make out and she lets me handle it. I can please her with my other hand while pumping my dick up.
The one issue I have right now is that Dr Eid gave me all the length back and girth. I have some pain when absolutely 100% inflated and I actually loose some 5-10% stiffness after say…5-10 minutes If I´m 100% inflated, and I have to give it a few more pumps to get it back to max inflation. That is a bit annoying but works for now. I will contact Dr Eids office to discuss this matter.
The mental part….every little negative thinking is gone and my confidence it really high. This is the best thing you can do if you are suffering from severe ED.
Dr Eid left me with a really nice dick that I recognize from before op.
If I would be single there would not problem to fool anyone and keep it a secret for a while. It is that good of a job. Only way to find out is to feel the nuts.
My libido is super high….very annoyed that I don´t get use it as much as I want. But I guess that is another issue.
I absolutely know whay you mean about not getting as much as you want. I have been a closet bi for a long time and I am currently looking around for another closet bi to take care of my libido.
When you inflate, you don/t have to be 100%. My PE was fixed with the implant. After you inflate, give it a minute or two and pump some more... as things settle we seem to lose a little inflation... just give it a few more pumps and you will be hard as a rock.
You should cycle twice a day for 30 minutes each. That will improve your girth (length too if you had the AMS LGX) and it also keeps scar tissue away.
You have a great looking dick and one thing I noticed from your very first pre-op picture is that your head looks shorter and fatter... that is probably the tips of the implant up in your glands which is a very good thing. Yake care and I hope you resolve your lack of sex issue.