Last night we had sex for second time. First time was last weekend and i did not get off either time but feel great about it.
First time was a bit sore prior, during and after and also did not pump to 100% or deflated 100% once done. Pump was difficult and it was fun but not what i hoped for after all these years of missed time with my wife.
Last night however she was just about to fall asleep when I rolled over and grabbed her hair LOL and whispered a few nasty things in her ear
It was on! and everything just worked. Pump was super easy and in 27 pumps i was ready to go.
I had to stop a couple times after she got off (3 times with one really long O) because the legs would not hold up..
We would stop and get water or a shower and i even took at 10-minute ball soak bath just in case. I was waiting for a massive amount of pain to return but nothing other then what i been feeling on a day to day basis. Each time as she was laying there i asked shall i return inflated or deflated?
We finally ran out of hot water and fell asleep. Her comments to me were very positive and she was shocked at how aggressive I was LOL.. i shrugged and said get used to it! Lots of texting today that included the word stud
After work today she came home and been sleeping a couple hours now.
Really feeling good after all these years and certainly since surgery which was 6 and 1/2 weeks ago.
Some advice I could offer is work on cardio and walk a good bit before if possible. Your sex life will return at some # of weeks after surgery and you better be ready because your partner has been looking at your fatty for a few weeks now wondering when they would be getting some it.
Do not rush it, your body will tell you its time to go!