Single life with implant /concerns

[dan_bionic]

Lawrence13,
here is an old thread of myself with a lot of advices how to pump and why you shouldn't worry about pumping or inflaiing:
viewtopic.php?f=6&t=25493

Girls don't care about how and what, they just want to be fucked and think, they make you sot that you become rock-hard.
I often pump during oral or intercourse, the hotties like it to feel the dick getting hard while in their pussies.
Don't worry at all, you will find your way, how to do it.
I nearly always have a different girl and until now not one has realized anything, they even don't know something like an implant exists.
All the best
Dan

[ElbowRoom]

As mentioned by JohnnyBorg, I'm generally in the "tell them" camp. There's no shame in it, and honestly when I tell women they get interested and curious. I currently have a girlfriend who I told pretty early on, even before we talked about having sex. And she got immediately curious and excited. She loves it and we're both having the best sex of our lives.

Of course there's no judgment if you want to go incognito, it's just a personal preference choice based on your own comfort and what you want. My Titan Classic pump is pretty noisy, like a soft moaning noise. I think it would be pretty easy to hide if you wanted to with a few choice noises of your own. Or just excuse yourself to the restroom, and come out a couple of minutes later sporting a rager.

There are lots of possibilities, you can tailor how to handle it to your partners and what your expectations are with each one. No need to tell a quick fling, but you can always tell them if you are looking at them more seriously.

[whatevery]

I actually suspect that somehow letting women know that what you got is bionic, and wouldn't go soft until she decides that it's time would more often than not serve as a magnet.
Just saying.

Don’t get me wrong. I definitely let women know I am hard as a rock and fuck for hours! I just don’t tell them WHY I’m that way.

I find that most women want to think it’s them that causes that super hard dick. Even if I tell them I am always like this, they want to think that even though I fuck other women, they are lucky to be chosen by me. It’s social proof. Why would I want to disabuse them of those views?

Women are funny. Sure, a ton of women who are looking for traditional love and mating do NOT respond to my approach. But luckily I am not interested in them. There are plenty of women who just want to have fun.

These past two years have been a real education. I started out thinking I had to be a real vanilla nice guy to hook up, particularly as an older dude. What I’ve found is the opposite… women love it if you are dirty, just do it at the appropriate time and way.

One way I have turned a few of them on is by showing them videos of me fucking other women. That has really turned a number of them on. And it shows them my hard dick in action.

I dated a girl regularly in the few months following my implantation. We were pretty vanilla compared to how I am now. We split up for over a year, but a few months ago started texting again. I sent her some videos of me fucking, and she loved it. So I planned a trip to go back to see her. And she wanted me to film her too. She turned into a pornstar.

She has a new boyfriend. She likes him a lot, and he’s a good “match” for her. But I get the sense he doesn’t do it for her in bed. She likes the idea of a purely sexual thing between us, only when I come to town.

Anyway. Everyone has a different approach. You should do whatever works for you! Just have fun.

Hey man, once I implant and am ready to roll I'd be texting you getting some pointers