Did you tell your partner? Why? How?

[Franklin22]

I’m in a situation like this myself. I’m in a 3 month relationship and the sex has been phenomenal and she wants it everyday multiple times a day. We’ve had sex sessions for up to 2 hours at a time, but she has never asked me how I do it. She once said that I don’t even almost seem human once, but never said anything else. I guess I figured if she brought it up I might tell her, but it almost feels like don’t mess up a good thing like no harm / no foul.
I told my ex gf after about 3 months and she took it well. I’ve been deciding when or if I should myself with this new one…

The main thing I worry about is them having leverage over me down the line if it starts to go south, but everything is great right now.

I do like the artificial circular vein explanation though.

[UpNorth]

I’m in a situation like this myself. I’m in a 3 month relationship and the sex has been phenomenal and she wants it everyday multiple times a day. We’ve had sex sessions for up to 2 hours at a time, but she has never asked me how I do it. She once said that I don’t even almost seem human once, but never said anything else. I guess I figured if she brought it up I might tell her, but it almost feels like don’t mess up a good thing like no harm / no foul.
I told my ex gf after about 3 months and she took it well. I’ve been deciding when or if I should myself with this new one…

The main thing I worry about is them having leverage over me down the line if it starts to go south, but everything is great right now.

I do like the artificial circular vein explanation though.

Have what over you? Who cares who knows? Hell, things go south opens up more doors.

[Franklin22]

Well, I guess that’s one way to look at it. Most the girls I have dated have been in their 30s and I don’t think 90% of them have heard of a penile implant. It could be a bit of a shock. But I hear what you’re saying.

[GoodWood]

If it’s just a hook up I don’t think there is any need to say anything.

Three months into a relationship that seems like it could go somewhere seems reasonable to tell a basic version of what is going on and then let them ask follow up questions.

“I’ve been having some issues with my erections for a while and am having a minor surgery to take care of it.” If they ask for more details give them however much detail they want.

[Wodjathat]

One of the few times in my life, scratch that, definitely the first time in my life that I don’t mind having one testicle (twisted testicle when I was 14).

It’s new little brother sits along side the real one. I’m only 2 1/2 weeks since my implant and been thinking what approach to take.

I like the suggested approach that it is better to say something rather than nothing. Otherwise I feel that that it could create some unwanted anxiety that lurks around in the background of your mind. Best not to have.

So the comments on this thread have got me thinking about what my approach will be.

Perhaps something along the lines of ‘ I had a testicle that got twisted and strangulated when I was 14 (absolute truth). It now is smaller and hard (that of course is a white lie… it actually is the size of a pea). Please don’t feel around with either nut, it makes me feel uncomfortable (again that is the truth).

Hope it all works out for you.

[ready2go]

Hi All,
I’m currently considering getting an implant and was curious to hear if everyone here openly communicated to their partner about getting or already having an implant.
I (37yo) am in a 3 months relationship with a (30yo) girl and things are getting pretty serious, but I am debating whether I should either hide it as a minor vascular surgery like varicocele (justifying the pump as a post-op cyst or stent), or fully disclose it this early in the relationship. Any advice would be immensely appreciated.

me ? no , nope ,nada . in the year i have had the malleable . and had 4 women . the 4rth was my wife after she returned from a years absence , i told none of them and will not
each to their own .its there for the girls to enjoy that's all they need to know . Of the 4 , one asked me "why does your dick not sleep ?"
i smiled and pushed it down further
they ride ,they cum .they are happy . the end .

[dan_bionic]

Hi All,
I’m currently considering getting an implant and was curious to hear if everyone here openly communicated to their partner about getting or already having an implant.
I (37yo) am in a 3 months relationship with a (30yo) girl and things are getting pretty serious, but I am debating whether I should either hide it as a minor vascular surgery like varicocele (justifying the pump as a post-op cyst or stent), or fully disclose it this early in the relationship. Any advice would be immensely appreciated.

me ? no , nope ,nada . in the year i have had the malleable . and had 4 women . the 4rth was my wife after she returned from a years absence , i told none of them and will not
each to their own .its there for the girls to enjoy that's all they need to know . Of the 4 , one asked me "why does your dick not sleep ?"
i smiled and pushed it down further
they ride ,they cum .they are happy . the end .

ready2go

each to their own .its there for the girls to enjoy that's all they need to know . Of the 4 , one asked me "why does your dick not sleep ?"
i smiled and pushed it down further

I smile and say those girls, "cause you make me so horny, babe", this is how I get another hot round

[snake_jazzer]

Hi All,
I’m currently considering getting an implant and was curious to hear if everyone here openly communicated to their partner about getting or already having an implant.
I (37yo) am in a 3 months relationship with a (30yo) girl and things are getting pretty serious, but I am debating whether I should either hide it as a minor vascular surgery like varicocele (justifying the pump as a post-op cyst or stent), or fully disclose it this early in the relationship. Any advice would be immensely appreciated.

me ? no , nope ,nada . in the year i have had the malleable . and had 4 women . the 4rth was my wife after she returned from a years absence , i told none of them and will not
each to their own .its there for the girls to enjoy that's all they need to know . Of the 4 , one asked me "why does your dick not sleep ?"
i smiled and pushed it down further
they ride ,they cum .they are happy . the end .

Thanks for sharing! I can totally understand your approach and sympathize with the idea that we’re not necessarily obligated to share the burden of a minor (non-life threatening) health issue with our partner.

It’s great to hear that even with something as noticeable as the malleable (which I imagine is much harder to conceal), you managed to navigate it successfully in a long-term relationship.

Any specific reasons why you went for a malleable instead of an inflatable? I always thought that malleables would be easier to spot as they would bend more easily if manipulated in a certain way by your partner. Is that not the case? Thanks again!

[wolfpacker]

I've told some girls, kept it secret from some. The ones I told are all 30s and they were of course very cool with it

[snake_jazzer]

I've told some girls, kept it secret from some. The ones I told are all 30s and they were of course very cool with it

Thanks! Just out of curiosity, what was the reason why you would tell some and some other not? Was it based on the girl personality (the more mature, the more you felt like telling) or was it the type of relationship (the more serious, the more you felt like telling)?