AmansinCali wrote:Roadie,
I don't think what you are experiencing is abnormal. My pump was as hard as a marble when I first attempted pumping and made me really sore in the tissue between my fingers and the pump. It seems everyone complains about how hard the pump is in the beginning, unfortunately, the only fix is to pump more. If the scrotum tissue I mentioned starts getting sore, let it rest a day or two, this is not going to affect anything in the end, some doctors don't even let their patients pump for 4 to 6 weeks. Some guys have been cleared to pump in a matter of days, but I think those are the guys who get their incision in the pubic area. You are not getting pain because you are not pumping all the way yet.
After a few weeks of cycling the pump will be much softer and you will be able to get more complete pumps. As you are able to get more complete pumps you will feel an ache in your penis, this is also normal and is the sensation you get when you are stretching the tissue. After you heal some more, this should be your goal at each cycling. Let it ache for a while then deflate and ache will go away.
Don't worry about your size! You still have swelling and that makes your dick look short. You are going to end up with what God gave you, probably no more and probably no less. My wife says, "Women don't care, the sensitive area is only 2-3" in." Anything else is just bragging rights, it has nothing to do with sexual satisfaction for either of you. I am 8 1/2 weeks out of surgery, and I measured today for the second time. I am exactly where I was before surgery and my wife says I am the same in girth. Don't waste your time worrying about your size.
You sound completely normal to me.
Thanks for the road map, it's good to know what others have been through.
What you describe is what I was referring to, so far, I have not felt any pain, or discomfort as if something was stretching.
The doctor told me that we could wait until the fifth or sixth week without problems, but that if I wanted, I could try it on my own. I am doing it because, although the nurse is very kind, she has limited time to attend to each patient.
As for the size, I'm not so optimistic, but we'll see what happens.
As for the width, I had a penis of 18 cm/ 7 in, in circumference, I think it is not easy to recover this, with the prosthesis, it does not traumatize me either, but I hope I can. For now we are at approximately 15cm/ 6 in. I don't know if anyone here has recovered it.
The length worries me a little more, but I know I have to give it more time and more cycling.
I also have the proposal to remove the suprapubic fat pad, and loosen the suspensory ligament, which was not done in the same surgery, because it greatly increased the risk of infection (initially it was considered, all together) and I prefer health to beauty (length) , LOL
thx