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Update:

It’s been 33 days since my surgery.

I feel like I am at a weird point of the recovery process where it almost feel like I am completely recovered but then I push myself to much and realize I need to take It a bit easier.

On a normal quarantine day where I’m just hanging around the apt I feel like the implant is already part of my body. However, i went walking around NYC on the weekend to enjoy the newly reopened museums and then jerked off multiple times with my boyfriend at almost 100%. I think I definitely went too far for 4 weeks and then my penis got very sore.

The soreness is gone now but I decided to rest for another week before attempting anything sexual or walking too much for another week or two.

I have never penetrated so I am getting impatient but if Ihave waited 28 years, I can wait two more weeks to make sure I feel comfortable.

I’m no longer taking daily baths. I cycle every day out of the shower and try to get aroused with porn so my head and the rest of my penis becomes engorged as well. I take showers when I get sore from jerking off.

As for size and girth, I am very satisfied when I pump AND I’m also turned on. I never had an issue with my glans getting hard so aesthetically it’s way more attractive now than before.

Every day I realize just how skillful DR Eid was in how he performed the surgery.

Now I just have to get to the point where I can get rock hard without pain and use my cock to penetrate for the first time. Cant wait!

Thanks for this insightful journal, very helpful. Specially because my doctor is Dr. Eid so it helps me know what to expect.
Pretty excited for you on finally penetrating after 28 years!

Good luck.

5 weeks and 2 days Update:

- I finally topped my boyfriend for the first time. My ED had precluded me from ever penetrating anyone. It was fantastic tho I pumped it to a hundred percent and by the 20 min mark I started getting sore so I couldnt come inside. I jerked off next to him instead.
-Some unexpected psychological issues are coming up. These are not necessarily bad but for a young 28 year old who never had a real erection, this surgery has been huge. I definitely feel more confident and empowered. My partner is concerned about shifting power dynamics in bed, since he prefers to be the top, tho I believe I still prefer being the btm.
-Another concern being in a relationship is that I feel horny all the time (never got to experience hard-ons during puberty) so we are talking about having guests over from time to time so I can get the top in me out of my system.
-I hope to be back at the gym on Friday.

I experienced the same surge of confidence and needed to get a lot of topping experience. I did that and learned much in the process. I think it's a good idea to invite a third (or one on one with a third) as long as you and your bf can come to an agreement that does not damage your relationship. Congrats to you . Enjoy !!!