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I have heard guys say that they have never seen their penis as big as it is inside the pump. "Amazing!" they say.

I didnt run it when I was measuring - the tube itself is a great way to be able to track everything - as it always sits on the same place on my crotch...

bentorangepecker wrote:My wife is gonna hate this tiny thing in her.

Women are incredibly understanding and accepting if you are accepting of yourself and she feels loved, trusted and respected.

Women (generally) make love with the MAN, not to the penis.

She may miss your previous size, but she will appreciate (in my opinion) your togetherness.

I know a tape measure cannot measure certain qualities of love-making and sex, but those qualities are there and valued nonetheless.

2 weeks since my last post. Able to pump up no issue, but the pain is really bad near the top. It's made me lose all interest in sex. I'm 7 weeks post surgery now. Pumping is painful. Only able to have sex once. Can't figure out what type of underwear to have my penis stay in place. Peeing sucks. The bend that was supposed to be corrected isn't ( is the the plaque causing the pain ). I don't like how the penis isn't really solid to the body . Ugh. I can go on and on. My depression is getting worse.

Sorry for getting whiney. But between the non stop genital pain. The horrific spinal pain. And always being exhausted from my MS. It's taking its toll on me. If suffering from PTSD wasn't enough.

At least I got myself a new puppy last week. I need something to being some smiles to my face.

No imorovement in two weeks is not too very alatming, but is cause for concern.

I would discuss thiroughly with the manufavturer's Patient Liaison (that is what they are pai for ny the manufacturer and thus costs you nothing). Use that discusion to form questions for your surgeon. Then open a thorough and point-by-point conversation.

Lost half your girth? How ae you measuring? Circumference is the usual way.

Sorry been in hiding for a while. So my bent penis is pretty much straight now. I can pump as needed but after a few minutes of having sex I always have to stop and pump a few extra times. I've lost size. I've lost so so much sensation . I'm really not enjoying sex at all. I can't tell if my wife is telling me the truth ..she says it's fine and it's getting her off. I have so many female friends that want to try it out ( and some friends wives ). That's not happening but thanks for the offer. I'm still down length and girth. I don't like that Ive been having to relearn how to fuck. Have had a few instances from behind. Where I've ended up pulling completely out and then missed the vag going back it. Beyond painful hitting skin. Never happened before when I was longer/thicker. .. all positions are new to me. And because of losing sensation it makes it harder to get the proper groove going. I think I actually miss my huge bend to the left. It was me.

Another thing that bothers me is I can really feel the tubes and wires. Almost seems like they should be an inch back or so. .you know. The inch + that I lost. Sorry for ranting

Assuming your implant was measured right I’m sure in time you will get some length back, tubes and pump will alway be noticeable, wish you the best on the feeling back

Infra-pubic or scrotal?
Sounds like the former?

Wires ?? An electric pump might be nice ... but noisy..