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[Lost Sheep]

Also remember that visual penis length and usable penis length are not the same thing. When you grind your pelvis into your partners pelvis, another inch or two goes into her. That's why the penis enlargement operation is considered to be "for the locker room" and useless for sex. They cut the suspension ligament and allow more of the penis to fall out of the body (giving the illusion of a longer penis) The penis is still the same length.

If your partner is a "size snob", the extra visual length might help get her (or him) into bed, even if the extra length is not "effective". Getting your partner into bed is an essential function. So, not quite "useless for sex", as you put it. I assert, it may be useful for getting TO sex.

Having said that, few women of worth choose their bed partners for their penis. Such women are more discerning. Women tend to choose who they make love with for the total package, not solely the penis.

Thanks for reading my philosphizing.

[QuestionGuy]

Lost Sheep - unless you had appeared in playgirl magazine or you meet your partner at a nudist colony, when does this opportunity to view your penis and then consider weather or not to have sex occur? I know everyone's seduction technique is a bit different, but i cant think of a single instance when a women saw my penis much prior to its debut into one of her orifices.

Or are you saying hypothetically: if there was a date that involved only nude modeling and then before the next date she ghosts you?

Or are we having sex for a few hours, and then she sees me walking to the bathroom and thinks "although it felt like 8 inches going in and out of me....now it appears as though only 4.5 inches protrudes from his body...therefore : After tonight, i'm ghosting him"

This sounds like a paranoid fantasy to me....although it is ironically what has actually happened to me to me because of ED. (as I've written about in other posts) but even then, the women had already made the decision to get into bed.