Bjones wrote:So would a woman be able to tell you have a penis implant by the look of it? If I had one I wouldn't tell any women tbh..some might be u der standing but others could take that info and fun with it if things turn sour if you know what I mean. Lol
My favourite question here... or well, one of them.
I know you will get answers from old men who say the implant cannot be detected by women.
Let me tell you this:
The answer depends on what you do in bed. Or rather what your partner does. If you walk in to the WC, take your shower alone, pump up to a semi, get under the sheets, give it a few more pumps under the sheets, do some kissing and hugging where she doesn't really touch you, and then you penetrate her and keeps going till orgasm and she never touches your balls during the intercourse, and after orgasm you pull out, deflate under the sheets. Then, no she won't notice.
But if you let her do a blowjob with the lights on, and she does a proper blowjob where she sucks your balls, touches and massages your balls - then yes, for 100% sure she will feel that you have a plastic third ball in your sack. She may not understand it is an implant - probably most women don't even know they exist - but for 100% sure she will feel that you have a hard plastic ball in your sack. Then of course, I can imagine that many women would not say anything. She will understand that you have an issue with your genitals, and she may think it will be very awkward to mention it. But just because she doesn't say anything doesn't mean she didn't notice it. Think about it this way: You must be able to feel the pump clearly enough to pump it up. You must even be able to feel the pump clearly enough to find the tiny little deflate button to deflate it. If the pump is so impossible too feel that a girl who sucks/massages your balls cannot even find it at all, then how the fuck can you feel it clear enough to inflate/deflate????
She will notice it if she thoroughly touches or sucks your balls. Period.
And I would personally think that was embarrassing if I was 30 years old, having sex for the first time with a 25 year old girl. Of course. But it is something you will have to learn to live with. I'd still prefer that to not having sex at all. Or the horrible feeling of not getting the dick up at all when that same girl does what she can to help you getting it up. I would probably try to turn it into something positive. Maybe even tell her in advance. Make her excited about it. Tell her already when you pick her up in the bar or wherever you are, that she's in for the best ride of her life, that you have a robot dick which will be all hers for the night. Just have a sense of humour and be confident. For sure, there will be the occasional girl who will think it's weird and turn you down. But guys get turned down trying to pick up girls all the time. I am sure many girls would find it exciting and wanting to see it. And take advantage of it...
So just accept it. The implant is not 100% possible to hide. The more advanced sex you have, the more certain it is that it will be notice. But it is better than the alternative. And sometimes, even better than the original natural dick. After all, how many drunk guys can keep fucking for hours with a perfectly hard erection?