Titan Touch deflate first attempt, cant do it. Been trying for 2 hours. what am I doing wrong?

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I know first time takes practice to find the button, and to press it at right angle and with the right amount of firmness.

But I am getting fed up. It's not easy fumbling around inside your ballsack blindly, with all the new tubes, your testicles, the whole pump mechanism plus bunch of natural veins all crammed in that limited space.

Also everyone's exact pump placement and orientation can differ.

I feel where the round face plastic segment above the bulb is, and I press it firm from opposite sides, but nothing is happening. How hard am I supposed to press? It's also hurting my left ball the harder I press.

Do I have to isolate the deflate button and press just it? Or is it ok to just push whole thumb against the round face where the deflate button is located and sticking out from?.

Yes I'm impatient and it will come super easy once I figure it out and get practice. But right now I really want to deflate for the first time in several weeks just to wear a normal pair of pants and take a leak standing up.

Any tips to accelerate this and help me along appreciated.