Wives/Partners of bionic men, please share feedbacks

[Nozigan8667]

In my long ED journey toward an implant I am in the last phase of making up my mind and am sharing my thoughts with my wife.

She is concerned that the experience will kill any spontaneity and considers an implant as an artificial add that contradicts the magic of desire and arousal.

Considering that I am failing to even have a regular erection without pills or injections, which are even less spontaneous, I know her position is not rationale, but I would like to convince her with other wives or partners arguments and words.

Is there any of them in this forum that would crept to share experience, in particular to show that Leo for the « other side «, sex with an implant is very spontaneous, natural and «a s before ED »? Or any advice on how to help convince her ?

I know this is a strange topic but I think it is very useful to hear from wives and partners.

Thanks a lot!

[daddel]

Simple: No erection vs. erection (with implant). What would you/her choose?

And what is more spontaneous than an on demand erect dick?

I get her point about the magic of arousal and desire. But what does this help if the magic and desire doesn’t lead to a hard dick? -> this goes back to sentence number one

[dan_bionic]

A bionic dick is better than no dick
And the "magic" of arousal and desire will appear when she and you will feel the magic of your steel-hard on demand dick.
All the best
Dan

[Nozigan8667]

Thanks to both of you, I get your points.

Still o wish we had some genuine comments from interested parties, on the «  receiving «  end.

The chemistry of love is at the end the result of a commingling, of a relationship between two persons, and learning about the other opinion would be useful.

[duke_cicero]

Thanks to both of you, I get your points.

Still o wish we had some genuine comments from interested parties, on the «  receiving «  end.

The chemistry of love is at the end the result of a commingling, of a relationship between two persons, and learning about the other opinion would be useful.

I can just tell you that my girlfriends love it. Previously, before I went bionic, there was a lot of frustration and disappointment and emotional distance.

[ready2go]

[quote="Nozigan8667"]I

"She is concerned that the experience will kill any spontaneity and considers an implant as an artificial add that contradicts the magic of desire and arousal"

like her vibraters and dildos ?
maybe she does not want sex . or with you .
im being blunt ,but it is not uncommon .

[LGXDownunder]

...Still o wish we had some genuine comments from interested parties, on the «  receiving «  end.

The chemistry of love is at the end the result of a commingling, of a relationship between two persons, and learning about the other opinion would be useful.

Unfortunately you won't get any direct comments from wives or partners as Franktalk is a designated male only forum.
Women probably read it but aren't supposed to join. Maybe some do but I have yet to see any evidence.

I can share that sex with my wife has improved dramatically for both of us since my implant.
While I had ED sex was a chore for her while she waited as I faffed around with pills, injections, pumps, cock rings etc.
All of which were miserable failures for PIV sex. Other than the brief period when Trimix worked I couldn't sustain a useful erection for more than 20 to seconds. Now I'm ready and rock hard almost instantly and I can fuck her for as long as she wants. She is now very much into it and often takes a dominant role, which she never has in the past. Like many women post menopause (and many women in general) she doesn't orgasm from PIV, but with my implant I'm often able to get her very close, just not quite over the edge.

[richard_goes_bionic]

I was in the same booth like LGXdownunder she was patient all those years with me struggling and in the best way to satisfy her through oral pleasure. Since I was cleared for sex ( 10 weeks after surgery) we now had about 24 PIV and in about 20 of them she had orgasm half multiple times. Check my topic 1st time sex....
My problem now is that I am not able to come every time and keep going for to hard and to long which gives her discomfort due to former back and shoulder surgeries. So I have to step down but she had more PIV orgasm the last 5 months than combined the last 15 years. So this is a no brainer, if your wife wants sex with you its with the implant or none.