1st time sex with implant (18th attempt)

[Chris1967]

Dear Richard, perhaps a little mental imagery will help. Or have her massage and rub your nipples during sex. They are very sensitive, and that can enhance your orgasm. You could also try a longer foreplay. It works quite well for me in terms of orgasm.

[LGXDownunder]

The dilemma is growing. It was again one of the times when the ability to climax in reasonable time failed. It took me nearly 45 minutes and the main problem is only with hard pounding. You might think, lucky her, she will have multiple orgasm in the same time. It has happened yes but now it is the opposite, because she is already worried before we even start with sex and only concentrates to bring me to climax.

...So what makes the difference here that her pussy is not achieving the same like my hand. It is getting frustrating not only for me but more for her. The physical discomfort (in doggy able to climax) In her back and shoulder during my activities overshadow by far the sexual pleasure and creates an anxiety for the next sexual encounter.

...Let's face it, now we have conquered ED and have a new problem to deal with which is not to underestimate, because wifey already said she wont do this anymore. Due the fact that I can reach orgasm and I also try too, but than only during hard fucking, which again creates to much discomfort for her. Either way we both having a serious problem...

Richard, yes I'm guessing the anxiety both of you are now experiencing is the main culprit. I also really enjoy a long hard fucking, and I'm able to climax from it reliably. Fantastic with an implant as obviously my erection now stays hard indefinitely. I enjoy going for 30-45 minutes or more, stopping now and then for some pussy play. Continually thrusting feels really great, so I often try and prolong it, though I do vary the speed, intensity, angle etc. But I need to be very mindful that my wife also has back issues, so my stamina is now a double edged sword. If I sense that she is having any discomfort it's an immediate turn off. I lose arousal and become anxious, so orgasm then becomes difficult.

One thing we've been doing recently is I now slow right down intermittently and get her to be the dominant partner, grinding and thrusting on my cock at a speed that is comfortable for her. I include some very dirty talk for mutual encouragement. She has been getting right into both. It's often more intense than me just pounding hard continuously. I've had some mind blowing orgasms from it and usually climax faster.