Younger patient choosing implant (Eid / Titan) – concern about concealment

[indeed]

I know it's a really though call. Up and downsides to all the brands..

I hope you find the right choice for you man

Man I’m super unsure what to do. I’m glad to hear you’ve had no issues concealing it and I think the advice about leading the sexual interaction is on point. I am really bummed to hear that you regret getting the Titan. I have yet to read someone with our girth who doesn’t regret it. I just know Eid doesn’t like doing ams but will do them.

[LetoMan]

I've been with my girlfriend now for 2 years, and only recently told her about it, she had no idea.

Indeed, I’d love it if you expanded on that. We hear from a lot of guys that either do or don’t tell potential partners about their implant, but you are the only guy I have heard of that told her two years in. How did it go? What was your prep for a conversation like that? We’d love your insight.

[indeed]

It went very well. I told her before that i might need to get surgery again, but not what for. When i told her what for she was relieved it's not cancer or something of the sort.
She didn't care at all and was more interested in it and wanted to pump it.
She was also surprised and almost impressed how i managed to hide it from her.

She was understanding of me not telling her earlier and frankly she really doesn't give a fuck about it.

I didn't do much prep, i just told her confidently that i had surgery on my dick because of an accident and have a device in it. I said i'm sorry i didn't tell her earlier and that the reasons for that were that it's very personal and that i didn't want her to worry

I've been with my girlfriend now for 2 years, and only recently told her about it, she had no idea.

Indeed, I’d love it if you expanded on that. We hear from a lot of guys that either do or don’t tell potential partners about their implant, but you are the only guy I have heard of that told her two years in. How did it go? What was your prep for a conversation like that? We’d love your insight.

[LetoMan]

Thanks, Indeed. That aligns with my thoughts on this. Women largely cant figure it out and even if they could don’t care, particularly if their feelings for you extend beyond purely sexual.

[Mtricher]

I am about eight weeks out from my implant so I still have some softening to do. I’m actually a little smaller than you, but I don’t really have any issues with my implant. Yes, when it’s deflated, it’s sort of weird looking and feels crunchy. But unless you study it up close, no one would really think anything looks unusual. I have gone to a nude beach and felt like I fit right in. Plenty of guys with big soft ones, even bigger than mine. At this point in my healing, it doesn’t necessarily swing naturally but I don’t really care about that. I have also gone to a beach wearing a swimsuit with a liner without any issues. I felt comfortable.

It’s still a little uncomfortable to compress it tightly with underwear. But if I wore something snug, I know that I could conceal reasonably well. Here are some pictures of me wearing Krakatoa Haleakalā underwear. I am showing you some of my tightest work pants and a pair of snug shorts that I like to wear in the summer. In a couple of the photos, I’m actually trying to emphasize the outline. You can see some definition and that I hang to the left. But, I don’t think it looks unusual. Remember that light colors make it more obvious. If someone is staring directly at my crotch, yes they might think that I am showing a bit. But it’s not obscene or strange looking. If you are someone who is uncomfortable with attention, I could see how it might bother you. Like anything it just takes from getting used to.

At this point, I would do the Titan again, but of course I have no comparison to AMS. I do have the dog ears and folds, but I am still early on. I would feel comfortable changing in a locker room, and I don’t think anyone would think my dick looks unusual.