ElbowRoom wrote:As mentioned by JohnnyBorg, I'm generally in the "tell them" camp. There's no shame in it, and honestly when I tell women they get interested and curious. I currently have a girlfriend who I told pretty early on, even before we talked about having sex. And she got immediately curious and excited. She loves it and we're both having the best sex of our lives.
Of course there's no judgment if you want to go incognito, it's just a personal preference choice based on your own comfort and what you want. My Titan Classic pump is pretty noisy, like a soft moaning noise. I think it would be pretty easy to hide if you wanted to with a few choice noises of your own. Or just excuse yourself to the restroom, and come out a couple of minutes later sporting a rager.
There are lots of possibilities, you can tailor how to handle it to your partners and what your expectations are with each one. No need to tell a quick fling, but you can always tell them if you are looking at them more seriously.
Love that bit about your new lady loving it being excited.
