Celebrating piece of mind, a month after surgery

[Bionic_Brian]

Today is a celebration.
It's exactly four weeks and three days after my surgery. On February 2nd, I received an AMS 700 LGX, and today was my second checkup with the surgeon. At the first checkup (18 days after surgery), I was told I could cycle, and if all went well, I could have sex, which indeed went well. Today I was told the third and fourth checkups could be canceled, as there was no reason for more checkups.

Now, my story:
After more than 20+ years of ED, during which I could no longer perform because my erections never lasted longer than 15 seconds at most, I was able to have sex normally again 18 days after surgery.

Having sex, receiving oral sex, and even anal sex is no problem at all anymore. I no longer have to worry about having to climax as quickly as possible, because otherwise it won't happen anyway. I can just take it easy and enjoy sex. Playing music during sex (which always distracted me enormously, making it impossible for me to do anything) is now a joy, and I also feel freer in the sauna now because I no longer have that small, cramped pile of unhappiness, but just a normal penis that looks like other men's. What a relief.

What's absolutely amazing is that having sex twice in one evening, and even an evening with three orgasms (I just had to try it), is now possible. It's so incredibly satisfying to no longer be agonizing over things because I'm afraid of failing, of disappointing my wife; I can actually do it now. And my wife is absolutely thrilled with how things are now. She no longer just has my fingers and tongue, but also my penis. She's going to really enjoy it soon on our first holiday after the surgery, where we'll have all the time for each other, including new possibilities.

For others who have doubts or are afraid of the surgery... Do it. My life has truly changed completely when it comes to sex. The peace of mind I now have, because I'm no longer afraid of failing, disappointing my wife, or feeling embarrassed in places where others can see me naked (like a sauna or a nudist beach), is truly liberating. It's not just the sex that's much better; it's mainly the peace of mind and the tension surrounding sex that's completely gone. And that's wonderful.

I also want to express my gratitude to everyone here who posted about their experiences, as they convinced me to do it too. And also to everyone who answered my questions, as they also reassured me enormously.

Thank you all.

[LetoMan]

Congratulations Brian, and welcome to the brotherhood!

You sound like one of the many brothers for whom an implant was not just an improvement, but truly life changing. It really is.

The best is yet to come, brother. I wish you and your wife many years of happiness.

Be well,
Leto

[Kodixx]

Bionic_Brian, congrats on your milestone ! Always great to hear new success stories and inspire others to seriously consider this life changing decision.

- Chuck

[SWorks17]

That’s Awesome Bionic-Brian!

Man! You healed up quick! And now you’re using your Bionic Weapon! lol

I’m so happy for you brother, and like Leto said, I wish you many many years of happiness with your new Dick!

It does get better!
Your Bionic Brother in Texas
SWorks

[Azchris]

Man this is such an encouraging story. I am scheduled for my surgery march 26th. I have had a wave of emotions as it gets closer. Some positive Some freaked out and wondering if im making the right choice. Fear of the unknown and while majority on here are positive i cant help but to get in my head on the not so good experiences. Thank you for sharing your experiance. Im praying that mine is similar! God bless your new journey and a worry free sex life. Intimacy is so important in our marriages and gives us men that confidence we need.

Chris

[richard_goes_bionic]

Hi Brian, I thought I was reading my own letter. Happy for you man, I just had the best sex in my new bionic life.
keep up the good work and let us make our wifeys happy again. mine was happy 3 times this evening.
btw great recovery brother.

[dan_bionic]

Brian, congrats and welcome to the gang!
Your decision was the right choice and now you're going to enjoy sex life and experience how a bionic dick can also change your mind.
We hope to also hear more jicy stories from you soon.
All the best
Dan

[Bionic_Brian]

Man this is such an encouraging story. I am scheduled for my surgery march 26th. I have had a wave of emotions as it gets closer. Some positive Some freaked out and wondering if im making the right choice. Fear of the unknown and while majority on here are positive i cant help but to get in my head on the not so good experiences. Thank you for sharing your experiance. Im praying that mine is similar! God bless your new journey and a worry free sex life. Intimacy is so important in our marriages and gives us men that confidence we need.

Chris

Hi AzChris,

I understand your fear like no other. I, of course, suffered greatly from this myself, especially as you read more about implant users, because you sometimes encounter unpleasant, even horror, stories. But... as my surgeon told me, and I'm sure he's right... most people who have had good results don't write about it out of shame or because they have nothing to complain about. It's really only a small percentage of people who are doing less well than those who are doing very well.

My goal, and also my expectation, when I went for the surgery was to improve my sex life, and I had realistically estimated that it might take a year for it to truly improve, based on what I read from others and what I heard from my surgeon.

What I didn't expect at all was that my sex life would be back to normal after just 18 days. Let alone that it would be absolutely fantastic from the very first time.

I expected that:
- Sex wouldn't be possible for much longer
- Sex would be painful at first, once it was allowed again
- That my glans would be too soft to have sex without a condom
- That I would lose sensation, and therefore enjoy it less

What I didn't expect was that none of this was true, that it would be perfect right away, and that I would be able to enjoy it completely from the moment I could have sex again.

And what I certainly didn't expect was how much has changed emotionally and mentally. That I'm no longer afraid of it not working out, that I can play music during sex to make it more romantic. That we can stop for a moment, take a sip of wine, and then continue. And all of that, without any form of stress or anxiety that the slightest interruption or delay in my orgasm could ruin the entire evening.

I went into surgery to have a little more opportunity for sex, but I've become a new person. And that last part, that's not why I did it, but it's amazing that this happened to me.

March 26th is already very close. I hope you don't get too caught up in the awful stories you hear, see, and read, but that you go into it with confidence. The pain was much less than I expected, and I personally believe that if you go into surgery with confidence, the chance of success is much greater.

Best of luck! If you have any questions, feel free to PM me, and I wish you exactly the same recovery I experienced. All the best, man.

[SWorks17]

Man this is such an encouraging story. I am scheduled for my surgery march 26th. I have had a wave of emotions as it gets closer. Some positive Some freaked out and wondering if im making the right choice. Fear of the unknown and while majority on here are positive i cant help but to get in my head on the not so good experiences. Thank you for sharing your experiance. Im praying that mine is similar! God bless your new journey and a worry free sex life. Intimacy is so important in our marriages and gives us men that confidence we need.

Chris

Hi AzChris,

I understand your fear like no other. I, of course, suffered greatly from this myself, especially as you read more about implant users, because you sometimes encounter unpleasant, even horror, stories. But... as my surgeon told me, and I'm sure he's right... most people who have had good results don't write about it out of shame or because they have nothing to complain about. It's really only a small percentage of people who are doing less well than those who are doing very well.

My goal, and also my expectation, when I went for the surgery was to improve my sex life, and I had realistically estimated that it might take a year for it to truly improve, based on what I read from others and what I heard from my surgeon.

What I didn't expect at all was that my sex life would be back to normal after just 18 days. Let alone that it would be absolutely fantastic from the very first time.

I expected that:
- Sex wouldn't be possible for much longer
- Sex would be painful at first, once it was allowed again
- That my glans would be too soft to have sex without a condom
- That I would lose sensation, and therefore enjoy it less

What I didn't expect was that none of this was true, that it would be perfect right away, and that I would be able to enjoy it completely from the moment I could have sex again.

And what I certainly didn't expect was how much has changed emotionally and mentally. That I'm no longer afraid of it not working out, that I can play music during sex to make it more romantic. That we can stop for a moment, take a sip of wine, and then continue. And all of that, without any form of stress or anxiety that the slightest interruption or delay in my orgasm could ruin the entire evening.

I went into surgery to have a little more opportunity for sex, but I've become a new person. And that last part, that's not why I did it, but it's amazing that this happened to me.

March 26th is already very close. I hope you don't get too caught up in the awful stories you hear, see, and read, but that you go into it with confidence. The pain was much less than I expected, and I personally believe that if you go into surgery with confidence, the chance of success is much greater.

Best of luck! If you have any questions, feel free to PM me, and I wish you exactly the same recovery I experienced. All the best, man.

Bionic-Brian, it’s fantastic that you healed up much quicker than most of us guys out here on FrankTalk.

I was cleared for sex at 6 weeks and I had device training at 6 weeks. I still had a lot of pain, numbness and swelling.
I did try PIV sex at 8 weeks and my dick throbbed with pain for two days.
Everything got better each week, I just don’t want guys to think that everyone heals quick.
For me, sex felt normal again after 4 to 5 months.

I’ve had my LGX for almost 4 1/2 years now, and it’s fantastic, the best sex ever!

Keep enjoying your new Bionic Weapon and keeping the wifey happy!

Your Bionic Brother in Texas
SWorks

[cbinspok]

more congrats B Brian !
your head in the game is key, love the success stories!
now you have some catching up to do