richard_goes_bionic wrote:Hi guys, maybe it was beginners luck my first attempts or just to optimistic but today was my second in a row which did not succeed. We had a day session with the usual for play and we both were into it and really want it to be good. so she on top riding me good and hard but I was not even close, she was nearly coming but did not. So we continued but as much we were trying as less happened. I didn't count but we changed in all different position and fucked really hard. After one hour we gave up, frustrated, sweat and worn out.
I had already pain in my shaft and glans from pounding, she was sore due the same reason. We wanted it so badly both that we overkilled it. I dont understand that my ability to orgasm, from shoot and ask later, to one hour full throttle banging with 0 result its weird. I think she wants to have a break now and I am afraid this will take some time. Until then wish you a great time.
My man Richard, I’m on my third attempt now. On the second time, my wife actually asked me to slow down and relax because we were just overthinking and struggling through it.But the third time, things went a little better. It felt more natural, less forced. Now I’m just looking forward to the fourth time.I honestly think we’re in that overthinking phase right now, and sometimes we unintentionally bring our wives into that mindset too. Like your wife told you and mine told me as well we both need time to heal mentally and physically.
Everything will fall into place in its time. We just need patience and consistency.
One step at a time, brother.
