2.5 year and disclosure question (update)

[UpNorth]

HAHAAAAA , yeah , they want men to bare all , but not themselves.
Where have you guys been living ,under a rock ?
woman look you straight in the eye and lie .
And do it with confidence and expertise. And never with any remorse .
i have had women ask me point blank, " how many girls have you fucked "?
and i respond , haha what!? How many men have you fucked ?
Then from her? Crickets . Where is that "women want trust and honesty" you are claiming, the always truthful and never deceiving ,all truth telling all the time, women at when asked about their personal life details?
woman want honesty , hahaaaahaaaaa .
They will never be honest . they will always have a closet full of secrets you will never be privy to . This need to "tell her everything" is beta simp territory.
fuck her , make her cum . and enjoy .
thats all she needs to know .

Sorry, but you've obviously not met the right women. They are not all like that. I think if you haven't found honest women in your life, then you've been living under a rock!

i have been maried for 34 years , how about you ? anyone else ? i feel no need to tell my wife i had an implant .and this "woman want honesty "feminus crap ,translates to women want to snoop and control of every detail of a mans life.
but no woman will ever be complety honest and open about her past life , although they sure want to know the mans . "you must be honest" hahaaa .
whatever . no big deal . if the op wants to divulge his implant or not .
its just a matter of personal choice .
if he marrys the girl and she has a hissy fit over not knowing he had it . pack up and move . what they care about is good sex ,until they are no longer interested .

Deep breath.
It’s okay.
Now meditate for a moment then
Another deep breath

[dan_bionic]

Side note, during sex yesterday she said “your dick is so good, how do you do this !?"

After you tell her will probably be the last time, you hear that...
Good luck
Dan

Okay Dan let’s fight here. I’ve read your posts for months and always looking forward to reading them. I, we, understand the torment you went through, but look at it through our eyes, men that were in a relationship when we had our implant installed. Heck my wife and I are in our kitchen now working on making dog food, she is having a bad reaction to a boob surgery and hives head to toe, completely miserable and we are flirting and she is telling me I have a great cock. So, I can’t believe that most women would frown on his implant. If their sex life is intense my guess is that she will run with it and tease the fuck out of him.
I could be wrong but that would only be the fourth time in my life. So put up your dukes and let’s go at it.
Lol.

Hey, we are not here on FT for fighting, we are just here as past ED sufferer to express our opinion and give information of our journey and current improvement (or not) of our sexual life, whatever it is.

I'm not talking about you guys that ARE married and have nice wives and great sexual life and have gone through your ED suffering and implant time and so on, I'm talking about his special situation of having great sex now with a hottie girl for 9 month, that is telling him what a great dick he has and thinking about to merry her.
No one knows how she will react, when he now discloses his "secret" to her, she might be very understanding and carrying, however she might start thinking all the negative aspects I wrote about in the other post above. That's just my opinion to his current special scenario and that's all.

So kudos to all married guys, don't be offended by my journey and current situation to make-up for my lost asexual time and ED. Please enjoy your great sexual life, it's fine for me and I do not and never did encourage anyone to betray his wife with young chicks. Just continue and continue be happy!
All the best
Dan

[UpNorth]

Just attempting to add some humor

[Kodixx]

UpNorth, enjoyed your post. But with all seriousness, sending best wishes for your wife to recovery quickly -- that sounds really terrible.

- Chuck

she is having a bad reaction to a boob surgery and hives head to toe, completely miserable and we are flirting and she is telling me I have a great cock.

[UpNorth]

UpNorth, enjoyed your post. But with all seriousness, sending best wishes for your wife to recovery quickly -- that sounds really terrible.

- Chuck

she is having a bad reaction to a boob surgery and hives head to toe, completely miserable and we are flirting and she is telling me I have a great cock.

Thanks Chuck.
She started steroids yesterday and big improvements.

[Franklin22]

Well Brothers, I wanted to come back and update you all on the final verdict. I appreciate all of the responses and insight from all of you. Consulting you guys really gave me the confidence to go ahead and make the decision to tell my gf about the implant.
The implant is such a great thing, it really is a shame that it feels like its something to be ashamed about. I went from having this cloud over my head of having E.D. for several years to most recently living with the anxiety of whether my partner will figure out if I have an implant or think im weird for having one.

About the reveal, I went ahead and picked a night where we would stay home and cook dinner. I took a little THC along with a couple of stiff drinks. I then delivered her a stiff cock for about 45 minutes. After sex, we laid in bed and she was just telling me how much she loved me so I decided to open up and tell her.
I started with..... "I love you too, and I want you to know everything there is to know about me. I had a surgery a few years ago to fix a medical problem. Its a penile implant and its the reason our sex is so good. I've held off on telling you not because I was embarassed, but because its personal."

She didn't flinch. And was very thankful I told her about the implant. Quite honestly, she was a little embarassed she hadn't figured it out on her own. But she said she chalked it up to my TRT I take. She asked about 4-5 questions about the implant on how it worked and why I did end up getting it.
We had sex one more time before bed and went to sleep. Thats it. This was about 3 weeks ago and our relationship is no different except maybe a little closer. Our sex is just as intense and as frequent as before.

I hope this helps all the other brothers making the decision to implant or the ones struggling to talk to their partner about it. This site has been truly amazing for me over my entire journey.

[Wooody]

Well Brothers, I wanted to come back and update you all on the final verdict. I appreciate all of the responses and insight from all of you. Consulting you guys really gave me the confidence to go ahead and make the decision to tell my gf about the implant.
The implant is such a great thing, it really is a shame that it feels like its something to be ashamed about. I went from having this cloud over my head of having E.D. for several years to most recently living with the anxiety of whether my partner will figure out if I have an implant or think im weird for having one.

About the reveal, I went ahead and picked a night where we would stay home and cook dinner. I took a little THC along with a couple of stiff drinks. I then delivered her a stiff cock for about 45 minutes. After sex, we laid in bed and she was just telling me how much she loved me so I decided to open up and tell her.
I started with..... "I love you too, and I want you to know everything there is to know about me. I had a surgery a few years ago to fix a medical problem. Its a penile implant and its the reason our sex is so good. I've held off on telling you not because I was embarassed, but because its personal."

She didn't flinch. And was very thankful I told her about the implant. Quite honestly, she was a little embarassed she hadn't figured it out on her own. But she said she chalked it up to my TRT I take. She asked about 4-5 questions about the implant on how it worked and why I did end up getting it.
We had sex one more time before bed and went to sleep. Thats it. This was about 3 weeks ago and our relationship is no different except maybe a little closer. Our sex is just as intense and as frequent as before.

I hope this helps all the other brothers making the decision to implant or the ones struggling to talk to their partner about it. This site has been truly amazing for me over my entire journey.

That's great!! You controlled the situation, disclosed it on your own terms, and now you can be completely free of any anxiety about if/when she'll find out and how she'll react to it. And, you've gotten even more affirmation about the quality of the woman you're with and the quality of your relationship. Congrats!

[Kodixx]

That's great!! You controlled the situation, disclosed it on your own terms, and now you can be completely free of any anxiety about if/when she'll find out and how she'll react to it. And, you've gotten even more affirmation about the quality of the woman you're with and the quality of your relationship. Congrats!

This ^^^^^^

[SWorks17]

Congratulations Franklin22,

I’m glad she took it well!

Both! Took it well mentally and took it well physically! Lol
Just wanted to add a little humor in there!

I hope your relationship continues to grow!

Your Bionic Brother in Texas
SWorks

[ElbowRoom]

Beautiful, great work on improving your relationship! I’m glad everything worked out well.