1st time sex with implant (3rd attempt)

[dan_bionic]

I found that it was difficult to orgasm in the earlier recovery times. I actually think that the implant made my penis more sensitive and I would feel over stimulated, and that makes it hard to come.

Also, during the first couple of months I was still healing, and still had sore spots, which of course distracts from orgasm.

Last, and this is perhaps unique to me. Prior to my implant, I spent over ten years with progressively worse ED. As it got worse, the only thing I thought about during sex was whether I was going to be able to get it up, and hold it. I had stopped thinking about what I should have! Like, how soft and warm her pussy is, like how beautiful and sexy my girl looks lying naked in bed, etc etc.

Once I healed up completely, and allowed myself to stop worrying about ED and just be in the moment of passion, I routinely started to orgasm.

Be patient, I’m pretty sure it will all work out!

Well said, that's how the bionic dick becomes the new "normal"
Enjoy
Dan

[Kodixx]

Richard, I get your frustration. It took about 4 months for sex with implant to become a "new normal". And even at that point orgasm via PIV was tough due to reduced sensation. I'm about 1 year post-op now, and found that between 4 months and 1 year sensation gradually improved and orgasm via PIV improved. I'm good with it now, and hope you experience something like that or better. Best wishes.

- Chuck

I really hope this will settle more in more normal terms in the future, or do you have any idea or advice how to cope with it.

[GoodWood]

It’s early days and things are still healing and settling in.

Give it time. Be patient. For now just plan on going as long as she wants and then finishing with oral or by hand. Try new things and just enjoy the experimentation.

[richard_goes_bionic]

thanks very much brothers for your empathy and advice. Just finished attempt 4 with success. I tried not to pump to the max which resulted in more sensation during PIV. Maybe 70-80% like you suggested it. It was still not easy and needed som doggy pounding but nothing like yesterday and today she just put herself on display for me so I could concentrate on myself.
Lets face it, its not like before when we were healthy without ED, but there is no alternative to it in my opinion.
So let's make the best out of it. Time is on our side.

Great community we are!

Richard