2.5 year update and disclosure question

[ready2go]

Franklin22, I agree with Carbonburrito and Elbowroom, I think you should tell her.

Carbonburitto, women think different, especially in this case. they don't know what it's like for men to struggle with this. what I have found in my marriage is that women want to feel secure. they want to trust you and feel that you trust them. that is the most important aspect of this thread, imo.

"Like they both said women want trust and honesty. "........

HAHAAAAA , yeah , they want men to bare all , but not themselves.
Where have you guys been living ,under a rock ?
woman look you straight in the eye and lie .
And do it with confidence and expertise. And never with any remorse .
i have had women ask me point blank, " how many girls have you fucked "?
and i respond , haha what!? How many men have you fucked ?
Then from her? Crickets . Where is that "women want trust and honesty" you are claiming, the always truthful and never deceiving ,all truth telling all the time, women at when asked about their personal life details?
woman want honesty , hahaaaahaaaaa .
They will never be honest . they will always have a closet full of secrets you will never be privy to . This need to "tell her everything" is beta simp territory.
fuck her , make her cum . and enjoy .
thats all she needs to know .

[Wooody]

HAHAAAAA , yeah , they want men to bare all , but not themselves.
Where have you guys been living ,under a rock ?
woman look you straight in the eye and lie .
And do it with confidence and expertise. And never with any remorse .
i have had women ask me point blank, " how many girls have you fucked "?
and i respond , haha what!? How many men have you fucked ?
Then from her? Crickets . Where is that "women want trust and honesty" you are claiming, the always truthful and never deceiving ,all truth telling all the time, women at when asked about their personal life details?
woman want honesty , hahaaaahaaaaa .
They will never be honest . they will always have a closet full of secrets you will never be privy to . This need to "tell her everything" is beta simp territory.
fuck her , make her cum . and enjoy .
thats all she needs to know .

Sorry, but you've obviously not met the right women. They are not all like that. I think if you haven't found honest women in your life, then you've been living under a rock!

[Franklin22]

I appreciate all the replies. I’ve decided I will tell her within the next few weeks. I just can’t risk something coming out later. Like many have said, if she’s the right one for such a big decision she will understand. If not, I probably dodged a bullet. I think I’m most worried about potentially messing up a semi perfect relationship.
Side note, during sex yesterday she said “your dick is so good, how do you do this !?

I was so close to telling her, but didn’t feel like during sex was the right time.