2.5 year update and disclosure question

[ready2go]

It’s been awhile since I’ve posted or visited the site. I guess you could say I’m one of the ones happy out living life. This implant has been one of the most life changing things I’ve ever done. Dr. Clavell did a wonderful job sizing to me to where I didn’t lose any size and even gained some girth. When I went for the implant, I kinda felt like what do I have to lose ? After 2.5 years with this thing I actually now know what great sex is and am supremely confident in bed.
Ive been dating my gf for now about 10 months and the sex is off the charts. She tells me all the time “ I love your dick”. She says it’s the best sex she’s ever had. We have sex on days we see each other atleast twice a day. We kinda feel like nymphos if I’m being honest. Not only is the sex amazing everything else is great including our emotional connection.
There is one caveat, she has no clue I have an implant and never asks questions. I was thinking I’d tell if her if she ever presses me, but it doesn’t happen.
She really wants to get married and I’m thinking about it hard. Part of me doesn’t want to tell her at all because it just doesn’t come up and she doesn’t seem to care. The other part of me says, what if I need a revision one day and need to disclose this to her?
The other thing is, I like the way she looks at me and I like her not knowing as I wouldn’t want it to change the way she looks at me.
Would It be appropriate to just never disclose this information ?

Here we go again , another guy worried about revealing his personal medical history with the woman he is doing at the moment ,AND bunch of guys that will tell him to confess to everything . To a woman , who have secrets they will take to the grave without ever telling a single man .
what is this obsession with baring all your personal information with women who hide theirs as part of their natural character? is she going to give you every detail of her past sex life , with who ? men and women , how many ?
Hell no . that goes to the grave with her . But you? You need to go over your medical operations with her , for what ? approval ? to ease your conscience that is bothering you for some starge reason?
I had my malleable when my wife left for 1 year .
You can bet i had sex partners during that time . i felt zero need to tell any of them I have an implant and did not .
When my wife finally decided to return and we had sex , I didn't tell her either; she still doesn't know ,and I won't ever tell her .
IF... i ever change it up . to a larger diameter rod, malleable or whatever, and she is presently living with me ,that will be the only way she would ever find out .

its my business and no one else's . the girl on the receiving end is satisfied; I'm satisfied . I leave it there . ......BUT each to their own . Still ,put me down for one vote ; hell no . just keep banging away and don't be concerned about confessing to other people about your personal medical history\operations.

[dan_bionic]

It’s been awhile since I’ve posted or visited the site. I guess you could say I’m one of the ones happy out living life. This implant has been one of the most life changing things I’ve ever done. Dr. Clavell did a wonderful job sizing to me to where I didn’t lose any size and even gained some girth. When I went for the implant, I kinda felt like what do I have to lose ? After 2.5 years with this thing I actually now know what great sex is and am supremely confident in bed.
Ive been dating my gf for now about 10 months and the sex is off the charts. She tells me all the time “ I love your dick”. She says it’s the best sex she’s ever had. We have sex on days we see each other atleast twice a day. We kinda feel like nymphos if I’m being honest. Not only is the sex amazing everything else is great including our emotional connection.
There is one caveat, she has no clue I have an implant and never asks questions. I was thinking I’d tell if her if she ever presses me, but it doesn’t happen.
She really wants to get married and I’m thinking about it hard. Part of me doesn’t want to tell her at all because it just doesn’t come up and she doesn’t seem to care. The other part of me says, what if I need a revision one day and need to disclose this to her?
The other thing is, I like the way she looks at me and I like her not knowing as I wouldn’t want it to change the way she looks at me.
Would It be appropriate to just never disclose this information ?

Here we go again , another guy worried about revealing his personal medical history with the woman he is doing at the moment ,AND bunch of guys that will tell him to confess to everything . To a woman , who have secrets they will take to the grave without ever telling a single man .
what is this obsession with baring all your personal information with women who hide theirs as part of their natural character? is she going to give you every detail of her past sex life , with who ? men and women , how many ?
Hell no . that goes to the grave with her . But you? You need to go over your medical operations with her , for what ? approval ? to ease your conscience that is bothering you for some starge reason?
I had my malleable when my wife left for 1 year .
You can bet i had sex partners during that time . i felt zero need to tell any of them I have an implant and did not .
When my wife finally decided to return and we had sex , I didn't tell her either; she still doesn't know ,and I won't ever tell her .
IF... i ever change it up . to a larger diameter rod, malleable or whatever, and she is presently living with me ,that will be the only way she would ever find out .

its my business and no one else's . the girl on the receiving end is satisfied; I'm satisfied . I leave it there . ......BUT each to their own . Still ,put me down for one vote ; hell no . just keep banging away and don't be concerned about confessing to other people about your personal medical history\operations.

Aggree 100%, that's what I say, just enjoy your current sexual life and don't bother her with your medical history, that is not relevant now, as you enjoy sex and SHE LIKES what you give to her...your super-power dick!
Dan

[SWorks17]

Franklin22, I agree with Carbonburrito and Elbowroom, I think you should tell her.

Carbonburitto, women think different, especially in this case. they don't know what it's like for men to struggle with this. what I have found in my marriage is that women want to feel secure. they want to trust you and feel that you trust them. that is the most important aspect of this thread, imo.

Like they both said women want trust and honesty.

Thankfully I didn't have that problem because I'm married but it was a journey for both of us, because I had to explain everything to her and what was going to happen.

My wife loves my Bionic Dick, and she likes it as hard as I can get it. It has really changed out sex life in our twilight years, well, early twilight years. lol

Your Bionic Brother in Texas
SWorks

[Kodixx]

Franklin22, just tell her, and tell her the whole story. If she has a negative reaction, doesn't appreciate everything you've been thru, and doesn't get what a great sex life that means for the two of you ---- then dump her and consider that a bullet dodged. If she has a positive reaction, appreciates what you've been thru, and is smart enough to get what that means to your sex life ---- then you have another reason to trust she's a good marriage match for you.

Hiding from stuff just sounds like a PITA.

- Chuck