Sex after implant

[SWorks17]

Well Guys...I finally had sex last night. 8 weeks from surgery and after 2 weeks if cycling.

It was more like a science fair project than hot, romantic sex. Although my wife did put on Barry White on the Spotify.

She was very patient and understanding. We tried a few positions. Seemed that missionary worked best. I kept slipping out with her on top and doggie was impossible right now. At first she said it was way too hard for her...I mean she also hasnt had sex in over a year...we used a ton of lube. She said she could feel the tubing at the base so I had to back off just a bit.

Eventually we found our rhythm. Turns out she didn't really understand that aftrr I come it will continue to stay hard. She did do a lot of reading but seemed confused about this part.

After about 30 minutes if fucking, she said look at your cock. It's grown! I grabbed my handy measuring tape next to the bed (yep, I'm obsessed)...and...I had actually reached just under 6" L with arousal and PIV! And I didn't have it pumped to the max.

We had to stop fucking because she was getting very sore...she has some of her own physical issues...and she then gave me the best blow job in our 24 years together!

She even said..."so this makes you like a bionic man now?!"

I did reach orgasm. I did have sensitivity and I'm not sore at all. I think the key was to keep it pumped to 90%.

We're going away this weekend so hopefully it will be less of a clinic and much more sexy. IYKYK.

I know I still have a way to go with my recovery but it's a relief to bust my cherry! And to have my wife finally relaxed and relieved about this whole ordeal. Even without the implant, not having had sex in so long was enough pressure on the both of us.

Thank you all again for your encouragement, advice and empathy!

Fantastic update Vincent!

I’m glad your Bionic Weapon got some action last night!
We had our first PIV sex at 8 weeks also, like you said at the top of your post, it was like a science experiment, I was trying to figure out how to arm my bionic weapon! Lol
I pumped up ahead of time as much as I could and by the time we got down to it, I was already having pain in my glans, and it was awkward trying to find her hole because I was hurting by that time.
I’m glad you’re not having any pain like I did and you got some good action. It only gets better from this point on Vincent!
Keep getting better Vincent and deploying your Bionic Weapon often.
Man! I wish my wife would give me a blow job after I fucked her hard for a while! I’m glad she was happy!

Your Bionic Brother in Texas,
SWorks

[Gringoinparadise]

Well Guys...I finally had sex last night. 8 weeks from surgery and after 2 weeks if cycling.

It was more like a science fair project than hot, romantic sex. Although my wife did put on Barry White on the Spotify.

She was very patient and understanding. We tried a few positions. Seemed that missionary worked best. I kept slipping out with her on top and doggie was impossible right now. At first she said it was way too hard for her...I mean she also hasnt had sex in over a year...we used a ton of lube. She said she could feel the tubing at the base so I had to back off just a bit.

Eventually we found our rhythm. Turns out she didn't really understand that aftrr I come it will continue to stay hard. She did do a lot of reading but seemed confused about this part.

After about 30 minutes if fucking, she said look at your cock. It's grown! I grabbed my handy measuring tape next to the bed (yep, I'm obsessed)...and...I had actually reached just under 6" L with arousal and PIV! And I didn't have it pumped to the max.

We had to stop fucking because she was getting very sore...she has some of her own physical issues...and she then gave me the best blow job in our 24 years together!

She even said..."so this makes you like a bionic man now?!"

I did reach orgasm. I did have sensitivity and I'm not sore at all. I think the key was to keep it pumped to 90%.

We're going away this weekend so hopefully it will be less of a clinic and much more sexy. IYKYK.

I know I still have a way to go with my recovery but it's a relief to bust my cherry! And to have my wife finally relaxed and relieved about this whole ordeal. Even without the implant, not having had sex in so long was enough pressure on the both of us.

Thank you all again for your encouragement, advice and empathy!

Congrats on getting back in the saddle again! I too have gotten back in the game, twice now. I have to say, it has been a strange experience. I guess I didn’t really buy in to everyone saying it would be like relearning to ride a bike (or whatever other metaphors people use) but it certainly was that for me. My dick is now a slightly difference angle and straighter, so positioning/thrusting coordination has changed. Also it’s still kinda numb so was hard to detect how deep I was going. Added to that was both women were new sexual partners, so that brought a whole other element of newness/awkwardness.

But, all in all, I was very satisfied with the experiences. The confidence in knowing that I wasn’t going to lose my erection was amazing, the first time I can say that in a long, long time. Neither women seem to sense anything abnormal (other than I could keep going and going! ). I wasn’t able to orgasm but that didn’t really surprise me based on what other guys have reported and my own experience with masturbating… the residual numbness makes it take a long time and require a lot of concentration. Add in a condom and I wasn’t expecting to get there. But second time was closer than the first, so I know it will happen eventually.

So, while I’m firmly in the experimental phase of things, my big take aways so far have been: 1) total confidence in achieving and maintaining an erection, 2) relative ease in inflating and deflating on the down low, and 3) no indication that women suspect my erection as anything other than natural.

All in all, a good start to my new bionic sex life!

[Kodixx]

Gringoinparadise & vincentarpino, congrats to both of you ! Yes early on its good to go easy and learn what's new. But in no time it'll become the 'new normal'.

- Chuck

[ElbowRoom]

Well Guys...I finally had sex last night. 8 weeks from surgery and after 2 weeks if cycling.

Amazing, sounds like y’all had a great time with it, even if it’s a learning experience. Congrats! I’m jealous of you being able to orgasm on your first try, I’m still working on that but feel like I am getting closer.

You are having a great recovery!