A book recommendation on ED and IPPs
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Gringoinparadise
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A book recommendation on ED and IPPs
Hey guys, I’m not sure if anyone has brought up this book on the forum, but it’s a memoir about ED by a male stripper/escort who goes by the stage name Punisher (he made some headlines in the last few years through the Diddy trials
). I first heard him interviewed on a podcast maybe four months ago and, honestly, his interview and his book really helped get me get to the point that I’m going for my IPP surgery next week. He does a very good job of normalizing and destigmatizing ED through humor and personal stories. Especially for the younger guys out there struggling, I think you’ll find his story really inspiring and uplifting. I know I did. Hell, I was even tearing up at one point. Anyways, anyone interested in looking into it can find his book on Amazon and Audible (I recommend the Audio version, as he reads it himself and definitely adds to the experience). The full title is: In Search of Freezer Meat: A Story of The Male Mental Health Crisis Caused by Erectile Dysfunction and The only True Cure No One Is Talking About...A Penis Implant. By Sharay “Punisher” Hayes. Also, the podcast was The Boyscast #302 (can be found on YouTube)… also a fun listen, hosted by two Canadian comedians. All the best!
45 yo American living in Bogotá, Colombia, had Stage 4 Hodgkin’s lymphoma x 2 s/p chemo/stem cell transplant, ED for years, poor results with pills, injections. Implanted 12/4/2025 with AMS CX 21 cm/1.5 cm RTEs. Preop 7” L, 6 “G at base/5” G below glans
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AussieGuy81
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Re: A book recommendation on ED and IPPs
Hey,
Yeah, a couple of us guys have mentioned him before and i totally agree with everything you've said. I have read his book and really enjoyed it, there are some really good interviews with him on youtube as well that i really enjoyed. I have even PM'd him on Insgtagram and he happily responds and answers questions, he's a really great guy. I also feel like he's helped me be more certain about my decision to go ahead with it next year,
Yeah, a couple of us guys have mentioned him before and i totally agree with everything you've said. I have read his book and really enjoyed it, there are some really good interviews with him on youtube as well that i really enjoyed. I have even PM'd him on Insgtagram and he happily responds and answers questions, he's a really great guy. I also feel like he's helped me be more certain about my decision to go ahead with it next year,
43, ED since late 20's, Pills on and off since then increasing strengths with inconsistent results. Now 5mg Cialis daily and either 20mg Cialis or 100mg Viagra
Not sure if it's Psychological or Physiological, long-term use of SSRI's probably hasn't helped
Not sure if it's Psychological or Physiological, long-term use of SSRI's probably hasn't helped
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Oz1958
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Re: A book recommendation on ED and IPPs
I listened to the whole book on Audible on an 8 hour drive from Melbourne to Adelaide the other day.
I found the introduction to be fascinating, don't want to put any spoilers here, but it was the best part on implants.
The whole book kept me engaged, and he certainly has some very valid points particularly about the psychology of ED.
Unfortunately I think when he finally got to the part about implants I sort of felt I had missed a chapter. A fair bit of medical detail, some of which I think might have been wrong, but none of the story of how he discovered implants and the journey to deciding on it.
But despite its shortcomings I still recommend it to anyone not just considering an implant, but anyone suffering ED.
I found the introduction to be fascinating, don't want to put any spoilers here, but it was the best part on implants.
The whole book kept me engaged, and he certainly has some very valid points particularly about the psychology of ED.
Unfortunately I think when he finally got to the part about implants I sort of felt I had missed a chapter. A fair bit of medical detail, some of which I think might have been wrong, but none of the story of how he discovered implants and the journey to deciding on it.
But despite its shortcomings I still recommend it to anyone not just considering an implant, but anyone suffering ED.
20 years of ED, initially managed by pills. Increasingly severe BPH, emergency HoLEP prostatectomy 4 years ago. Fixed the prostate but pills just don't work any more. Solution is decided.
Currently booked for surgery Jan 2026.
Currently booked for surgery Jan 2026.
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