Do women like prosthetic penises?

[ready2go]

I'm 23-24 years old, and I've been ED since I was 18-19. I've never had sexual intercourse before. Just because of ED. Will women dislike this surgery?

the women i have been with like mine . None of them know i have a malleable ,but they like to sit on it and grind away .

[Gt1956]

Point of reference. My 49 year old divorced daughter is now dating. Frequently Mr Erection will show up when he shouldn't.

So, uh…. I really don’t know what to make of this.

Maybe not relevant & surely worded poorly. Many women realize that erections happen, even when not welcome.

Many women learned about erections very youngish. My wifes main coach was a girl named Geri. She was a year or two older & they lived near each other.

There is a shout out to Geri in a post in the humor section. Basically my wife has said many times that I owe Geri big time for her relationship advice as we were dating in school.

[Mattbg7]

Welcome to FrankTalk. I hope you get the support and information you are seeking. I have found it really helpful as I struggled and ED and have found a solution that I really love (implant).


The consensus seems to be that women love their boyfriends or husbands. Not a body part. Being able to enjoy the physical intimacy and share the pleasure of sex with the man they love is really important, but they love HIM, not his penis.

Men in general are more body part focused than most women.

As for telling someone you meet/date, it’s the same guideline as any other intimate detail. Take your bipolar for instance. Its probably not something you mention the first moment you meet. But you might mention it in simple terms early on if the relationship looks like it is going somewhere. Then get into more detail as the relationship developed and she asks for more information. The same is true with your ED and your implant. You don’t need to mention it right away but if the relationship looks like it might get serious you’ll find ways to tell her in a general way at first (“I had issues with my erections for a while, but I saw a doctor and got it sorted out.”). By then she might have experienced sex with you and enjoyed the fact that you could stay as hard as you needed until you were both satisfied. As time goes by you could introduce her to greater and greater detail as necessary and as she indicates interest in knowing more specifics.

It’s the same with any other health issue, childhood trauma, delicate family situations, or financial details. Important to share with a serious girlfriend, but not stuff you share on the first date.

Regarding getting an implant when you are young, if your penis isn’t working sufficiently and a good doc recommends an implant I would proceed. Life is too short to waste precious years. Get this sorted out and enjoy having relationships and a sex life. Pursue the things you have dreamed about. Fall in love. Get married. Have kids. Whatever it is that you desire. Don’t let a plumbing issue keep you isolated and alone.

Best wishes to you. We are here to help.

This is a great answer.

[QuestionGuy]

You are so very young .....and have never had intercourse ....so how can you know if your issues are not related to anxiety. Have you used BIMIX/TRIMIX ? If so, what happened?

and shame on anyone egging this young man on, or talking about what a blessing the implant is ......when you got it in your 60's or 70's. The implant absolutely can be the right tool for the job, in certain situations, when all other avenues are fruitless......but it is not "nothing". It's not like a toupee or contact lenses or even breast implnats....this is a major major life alteration. Its permanent ...and it is a path from which you can never come back from.

At your age/no-experience, the anxiety associated with sex is the equivalent of being asked to host Saturday night live...with zero experience on stage......of course you're going to have issues.

I think you should find a good doctor who help you do some simple things (like a shot of TRIMIX) to rule out easily treatable issues. No one in their right mind would get a colostomy bag, if taking antacids a couple of times a week could sure their stomach issues.

[TANGERINE]

the question is so important and the replies are amazing.

I have not been active on this board for several years because I am too busy having sex and enjoying the chase of figuring out how to have more sex.
But....enough about me.

I have written a miniture book compiling my thoughts on everything implant. You can find it here on franktalk by typing in the search word: "..pamphlet..."

Also, hopefully this works, try the below link

https://www.franktalk.org/phpBB3/viewtopic.php?f=6&t=16298

In chapter 12, I discuss the topic of younger men getting the implant. My sense is that one should try and exhaust all other options before going nuclear. Implant for men is far more complicated than a boob job for women, beccause it is a little like a bionic implant that has many parts, and needs to function perfectly when called upon. If not done with excellent surgical technique, it can be pretty bad. That is an issue since unlike your kidneys, or your eyes, or your hands (where you have two), you only have one dick. This concept is called "eggs all in one basket" or "single point of failure with no backup". Please read chapter 12.

In chapter 13, I discuss if young women will be judgemental of the implant. The issue is that young women view their ability to produce an erection in their man as proof of their sexual desirability; the implant erection is viewed as "fake" by some women. Please read about this in chapter 13.

Overall, I agree with others that say that "women love a guy who can stay hard for as long as needed" that is a "magic dick which will not go down until we tell it to" and is a dick which"will never fail you"

I love my implant, and my sex life, and my ability to please a woman. But, the overall situation is more complicated then a few sentences here on frank talk