Do women like prosthetic penises?

[ready2go]

I'm 23-24 years old, and I've been ED since I was 18-19. I've never had sexual intercourse before. Just because of ED. Will women dislike this surgery?

the women i have been with like mine . None of them know i have a malleable ,but they like to sit on it and grind away .

[Gt1956]

Point of reference. My 49 year old divorced daughter is now dating. Frequently Mr Erection will show up when he shouldn't.

So, uh…. I really don’t know what to make of this.

Maybe not relevant & surely worded poorly. Many women realize that erections happen, even when not welcome.

Many women learned about erections very youngish. My wifes main coach was a girl named Geri. She was a year or two older & they lived near each other.

There is a shout out to Geri in a post in the humor section. Basically my wife has said many times that I owe Geri big time for her relationship advice as we were dating in school.

[Mattbg7]

Welcome to FrankTalk. I hope you get the support and information you are seeking. I have found it really helpful as I struggled and ED and have found a solution that I really love (implant).


The consensus seems to be that women love their boyfriends or husbands. Not a body part. Being able to enjoy the physical intimacy and share the pleasure of sex with the man they love is really important, but they love HIM, not his penis.

Men in general are more body part focused than most women.

As for telling someone you meet/date, it’s the same guideline as any other intimate detail. Take your bipolar for instance. Its probably not something you mention the first moment you meet. But you might mention it in simple terms early on if the relationship looks like it is going somewhere. Then get into more detail as the relationship developed and she asks for more information. The same is true with your ED and your implant. You don’t need to mention it right away but if the relationship looks like it might get serious you’ll find ways to tell her in a general way at first (“I had issues with my erections for a while, but I saw a doctor and got it sorted out.”). By then she might have experienced sex with you and enjoyed the fact that you could stay as hard as you needed until you were both satisfied. As time goes by you could introduce her to greater and greater detail as necessary and as she indicates interest in knowing more specifics.

It’s the same with any other health issue, childhood trauma, delicate family situations, or financial details. Important to share with a serious girlfriend, but not stuff you share on the first date.

Regarding getting an implant when you are young, if your penis isn’t working sufficiently and a good doc recommends an implant I would proceed. Life is too short to waste precious years. Get this sorted out and enjoy having relationships and a sex life. Pursue the things you have dreamed about. Fall in love. Get married. Have kids. Whatever it is that you desire. Don’t let a plumbing issue keep you isolated and alone.

Best wishes to you. We are here to help.

This is a great answer.