Should I get surgery now or wait to see Eid?

[ColoplastTitanUpOver]

RUN, don't just walk away from her.

[macoza]

Brother, I can’t stress this enough… you should leave her ASAP. Imagine if you said the same to her about a boobjob…

Dude I cant stress this enough.. you should leave USA ASAP. Imagine you saying this to an american woman who doesnt take sit from guys like you.

there’s a big difference in infection rates between low and high volume surgeons. Waiting for Dr. Eid won’t eliminate the risk but it gives you the best chance.

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I'll consider that. But Eid will NOT take my insurance., Thats the problem.

[macoza]

Dude, I probably have the cruelest story here on the forum: how I was crippled by charlatans who tied my veins. Look for my very first post. Do you know how I signed up for this? Because I rushed because of a girl who moved to another country and started hiding something. My life after that turned into hell, or to be precise, completely fell apart. And on top of all this, I was left, so to speak, disabled.

What was this mystery girl; hiding from you? How were you disabled?

Just stop and be the first to tell her that it's not her, but you who is leaving her! Then, after the implantation, she'll come running to you herself when her latest boyfriend dumps her, realizing she's selfish. Only then will you no longer need her. Believe me. I understand it's painful for you to read this, but it's true! Women like her are very cunning and cruel.

So your world advice is to leave her now even though she's still with me. Thats very smart, I'll dump her in 1 hour.

[ElbowRoom]

Dude, I probably have the cruelest story here on the forum: how I was crippled by charlatans who tied my veins. Look for my very first post. Do you know how I signed up for this? Because I rushed because of a girl who moved to another country and started hiding something. My life after that turned into hell, or to be precise, completely fell apart. And on top of all this, I was left, so to speak, disabled.

What was this mystery girl; hiding from you? How were you disabled?

Just stop and be the first to tell her that it's not her, but you who is leaving her! Then, after the implantation, she'll come running to you herself when her latest boyfriend dumps her, realizing she's selfish. Only then will you no longer need her. Believe me. I understand it's painful for you to read this, but it's true! Women like her are very cunning and cruel.

So your world advice is to leave her now even though she's still with me. Thats very smart, I'll dump her in 1 hour.

People are trying to help you here. If you'd read AntonS's posts, you'd know exactly how he was disfigured by bad surgeons. Many people here are older than you and have seen these scenarios play out time and again. Nobody's trying to tell you how to live your life, they're trying to keep you from making mistakes many of us have made in the past. Ignore their advice all you want, but there's no need to berate them for giving it.

Watching everybody give you the same advice and you getting mad about it is like a mother watching her son go by in a marching band who says "Look at that, every single member of the band is out of step except my son!"

[macoza]

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[principles]

This thread should be archived.

A waste of time for everyone who came running to help.

Have a nice evening.

[macoza]

This thread should have a moderator.

A few users are disrupting this thread when people are trying to help me.

God bless everyone here.

[staphylococcusecoli]

Macoza bro, let's get to the bottom...your dick is worth more than a flight and hotel. Don't cheap out and settle for a surgeon who does less than 200 IPPs a year.

[macoza]

People are trying to help you here. If you'd read AntonS's posts, you'd know exactly how he was disfigured by bad surgeons. Many people here are older than you and have seen these scenarios play out time and again. Nobody's trying to tell you how to live your life, they're trying to keep you from making mistakes many of us have made in the past. Ignore their advice all you want, but there's no need to berate them for giving it.

Watching everybody give you the same advice and you getting mad about it is like a mother watching her son go by in a marching band who says "Look at that, every single member of the band is out of step except my son!"

Appreciate deeply the cool concern but one should not judge another human being based on basic info without knowing the full story either. Granted I haven't brought all the info out but even then judgements should be held at bay. You getting mad when I tell you not to be judgemental makes you more angry and that shouldn't be the case here. But I do thank you for your advice regardless.