Psychological Effects of Being Implanted

[JiminFL]

Curious what other implanted forum members might have noticed as far as the psychological implications of becoming bionic? I've been enjoying my Titan for over 5 years now & when I stop to think back to pre-implant life, I really am a different person. Sex with my wife has always been important, but now it's become my primary focus. Fortunately my wife is more than willing, lol. Gone are the days of working late & centering my attention on my business. For me, having an on-demand penis is akin to literally having a superpower! With the children raised & out of the house & ED no longer a concern, I've been busy making up for lost time. Not to brag but, being physically fit combined with TRT & my amazing implant, we can & do go at it all night long. Not sure how mentally healthy this all is, but honestly I don't care, I'm having the time of my life & I catch myself feeling genuine sorrow for normal 61 year old men living "normal" lives. Thus far, my only regret is not having this procedure done sooner. What is everyone else here noticing when you self-reflect on becoming bionic?

[NYCGay]

Not sure how mentally healthy this all is

So you and your wife enjoy having lots of sex together. Sounds like a great marriage and mentally healthy life to me!

[LetoMan]

My two cents: getting implanted at an older age definitely messes with the normal order of things!

Most guys our age are slowing down when it comes to sex. My experience talking to my friends is that sex becomes non-spontaneous or non-existent for a lot of guys, regardless of ED.

I found that prior to implant, as I aged and my married sex life essentially ended, I found other things to care about. I had relatively empty relationships with other middle-aged parents, I cared more about work, I found social status in pursuing material wealth, etc. Mostly I was filling the emptiness I felt inside by convincing myself that expensive experiences were a substitute for adventure, romance, human connection.

Now, I definitely spend a lot of time thinking about sex, haha! Societally, that’s probably not a good thing. Society wants stable older men that are settled down and focused on improving their families, not guys competing for women with younger guys. Old guys are supposed to be focused on slowing down and passing the torch to the next generation.

Not me, though. I am not going gently into the night.

I find the single greatest psychological impact of my implant is my ability to believe in possibilities again. Before, I was resigned to my life: I was approaching 50, and felt that if I broke out of my sexless marriage that I might regret what I did. It was difficult to believe that at that age with ED I was going to find a relationship that was fulfilling ever again.

But with my implant, the opposite is true. I find I am spoiled for choice. It has completely remade me. The possibilities that open up due to my confidence and ability to follow through are crazy. It’s now very easy to imagine all kinds of different future paths for myself.

It’s not without pains. I am shedding my old life and building a new one. Certainly there are things that are lost.

But the opening of possibilities outweighs any losses. And for me, that is the ultimate mental health game changer. I had little hope for how I was going to find joy in the backstretch of my life. Now, I know that joy is attainable.

Eventually I probably will want that sex and love filled partnership. But right now, the ego boost that comes from feeling desire from a hot twenty something is simply incredible. It’s rejuvenating. It is finally filling the hole I have had in me my whole life. The implant has been a game changer for me.

I love hearing how it is a game changer for the rest of my brothers, too!

Be well, Leto

[dan_bionic]

I agree to all what LetMan and JiminFLare stating.
The implant was a game changer for my life.
I had 4 marriages, which after very short time, when the kids came, went asexual and after 40 years of asexual relation-ships it seems so that you become a person with no real sense in life, especially when your "career" ends and you loose your professional life that you've invested in so much (because of no sex).
I have frequently sex with hot young chicks, they make me very horny
I enjoy myself and trying to compensate for 40 years of four asexual marriages. Hope I can do it some times longer and regret ot to have done it sooner.
Dan

[GoodWood]

Two aspects are primary in my experience post implant.

One is confidence. I have so much confidence this thing will work I don’t think about it. That was true when pills initially worked great and when shots initially worked great. But those times were limited. Most of the time I used pills and shots they were becoming less dependable and I spent a considerable amount of time wondering if they would work well enough, long enough.

The other is spontaneity. With pills the issue was timing. Take the pills too early and the window of opportunity passed. Take them too late and I wasn’t ready in time.
With shots it was a matter of not having them with me when the opportunity for sex came up. Now I’m ready anytime.


Implant has been really great for my sense of well being and self worth.