Cleared for Sex

The final frontier. Deciding when, if and how.
Valdekio
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Cleared for Sex

Postby Valdekio » Tue Nov 04, 2025 9:28 pm

So I was cleared for sex today and of course my wife and I took the plunge. She was a little uncomfortable about hurting me so she took it easy but mainly wanted to see if I could ejaculate. That was successful except for the fact that during sex my glans was uncomfortable and when I ejaculated it was a little uncomfortable in the glans area as well. Anybody else experience glans issues like that after losing their penile implant virginity.
59 yr old. Implanted Sept.19, 2025
AMS 700 CX 18 cm + 1.50 extenders
Married 22 years to the love of my life.
Struggled with ED for the last 20 years.
Meds, pumps, injections quit working.

UpNorth
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Re: Cleared for Sex

Postby UpNorth » Tue Nov 04, 2025 10:02 pm

Mine was for about three weeks after my wife and I started having sex. The pressure of the implant pushing with each thrust kept me going slow and easy.
By the time she relaxes and not afraid to hurt you you will be ready.
I also massaged my glans pretty good by rubbing it against the implant.

By the way congratulations.
62. ? Asked. What is your sex life like? I’m a Romantic She’s a Nymphomaniac.
Coloplast Titan IPP
NYC by The Man The Myth The Legend Dr Eid
Penoscrotal W/ Scrotoplasty
Friday the 13th of June, 2025
Ed due to chronic pain, arterial insufiency, etc.

Valdekio
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Re: Cleared for Sex

Postby Valdekio » Tue Nov 04, 2025 10:36 pm

UpNorth wrote:Mine was for about three weeks after my wife and I started having sex. The pressure of the implant pushing with each thrust kept me going slow and easy.
By the time she relaxes and not afraid to hurt you you will be ready.
I also massaged my glans pretty good by rubbing it against the implant.

By the way congratulations.

Hey thanks! I had not heard that complaint much but the head definitely does not seem to be getting as big (engorged) so the tips are making pressure on it. Overall I was happy with the way it went for the first time.
59 yr old. Implanted Sept.19, 2025
AMS 700 CX 18 cm + 1.50 extenders
Married 22 years to the love of my life.
Struggled with ED for the last 20 years.
Meds, pumps, injections quit working.

LetoMan
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Re: Cleared for Sex

Postby LetoMan » Wed Nov 05, 2025 2:14 am

Congrats!

My experience is that it takes a few months for your dick to adjust to its new reality. There was some discomfort in the first few months. But it goes away once the implant and you get used to each other. Eventually it just feels like normal.
50. Implanted 5/21/2024 at Kaiser SSF. AMS 700 CX 21cm, 3cm RTE. Penoscrotal. Venous leak my whole life. Pills helped, but hated the side effects; worked less as I aged. Skipped injections. Grateful to bionic brotherhood that helped me make this decision.

UpNorth
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Re: Cleared for Sex

Postby UpNorth » Wed Nov 05, 2025 4:46 am

Tip: Don’t pump it up all the way when having sex yet. That will take pressure off the glans.
62. ? Asked. What is your sex life like? I’m a Romantic She’s a Nymphomaniac.
Coloplast Titan IPP
NYC by The Man The Myth The Legend Dr Eid
Penoscrotal W/ Scrotoplasty
Friday the 13th of June, 2025
Ed due to chronic pain, arterial insufiency, etc.

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SWorks17
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Re: Cleared for Sex

Postby SWorks17 » Wed Nov 05, 2025 7:28 am

Valdekio wrote:So I was cleared for sex today and of course my wife and I took the plunge. She was a little uncomfortable about hurting me so she took it easy but mainly wanted to see if I could ejaculate. That was successful except for the fact that during sex my glans was uncomfortable and when I ejaculated it was a little uncomfortable in the glans area as well. Anybody else experience glans issues like that after losing their penile implant virginity.


You bet Valdekio, I was cleared at 6 weeks for sex, but I could tell that I still had too much numbness and pain in my shaft and glans.
I waited til week 8 to have PIV sex, it was disappointing even at 8 weeks. I pumped up as much as I could because I was still getting use to the pump. I pumped up ahead of time and once we started foreplay, I was already feeling discomfort in my glans. I don't even remember if I came, it was hurting so much and I don't think I had enough pumps in to make PIV sex good.
My dick throbbed for two days after our first PIV sex. I emailed my doc and he said I probably over did it and just to take baby steps. I wasn't deterred, I knew my Bionic Dick would eventually work.
It keeps getting better every week, it did take about 5 or 6 months before sex was great again.

Keep healing up,
Take baby steps if you have glans pain,
SWorks
Age 67, Garden Ridge Texas, Boston Scientific Rezum procedure for benign enlarged prostate 19 May 21, AMS LGX 18cm with 3cm RT's installed 5 Nov 2021 by Major Dr Shane Barney, BAMC, San Antonio, Texas, Married 36 years.
DOD Pg 131, Faces Pg 27

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ElbowRoom
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Re: Cleared for Sex

Postby ElbowRoom » Wed Nov 05, 2025 9:37 am

Congrats, sounds like things are going well!

I'm 2.5 weeks post-op, and I haven't really been able to even masturbate yet, still pretty sore. It feels good when I stroke it, but Not anywhere good enough to finish, and I don't want to be too aggressive with it.
58yo Coloplast Titan 28cm Penoscrotal with Dr. Hakky 10/21/2025.
Pre-op erect measurements:
8.5"L and 6.5"C

Post-op: 8”L and 6”C at one week.

Boatdrinks
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Re: Cleared for Sex

Postby Boatdrinks » Wed Nov 05, 2025 9:40 am

I just want to thank you all for this helpful information. I still have 3 weeks before I get to see my doctor for my 8 weeks follow up. This is all great real life advice I need. Thanks for starting this post and good luck Valdekio.
:D 57 year old happily married. “Nerve sparing” RP in 2022. Several years of pills, pumps and promises. Finally became bionic October 9th. Before implant 6.5”x5.5”. Let’s get pumping. Implanted with AMS CX 18x2.


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