1) If your gf brings a lot of value to your life, you should make the most of things with her, while healing, as others in the thread recommended.
2) I know in other threads you mentioned getting a second opinion -- but I lost track of how that turned out.
3) IMHO, if for no reason other than peace of mind, you should consult with a neurologist experienced diagnosing issues 'down there'. My gut says they would confirm that thought that your nerves are still healing -- and that may help with the severe anxiety you described below.
Best wishes for coping with the healing, and as fast a recovery as possible.
- Chuck
Osprey_1 wrote:Well, it’s been 5 months since my operation. I still have a numb dick and I am still not able to have an orgasm by any means. It’s as if that part of me is hopelessly broken. I am plunging into a deep depression. I can’t sleep any more. it is painful … both mentally and physically. every day I am crushed to learn that nothing is changing. I’m loosing all hope.