Do you believe Ed was a big reason why some of our life just worst?

[drayan123]

I feel like after I got Ed I’ve lost my purpose and don’t have interest in anything am I the only one ?

[duke_cicero]

I feel like after I got Ed I’ve lost my purpose and don’t have interest in anything am I the only one ?

I think it definitely makes life a lot harder, but even if I couldn't have gotten an implant — life still has purpose and meaning and lots of opportunities for happiness and fulfillment. My life is just better with the implant. That's all.

[Old Guy]

I feel like after I got Ed I’ve lost my purpose and don’t have interest in anything am I the only one ?

You still have purpose as a human being on this planet. I'll admit when my ED kicked in it was a big dent in my ego because never had any issues prior. I lost interest in most everything. Luckily my wife supported me and all my crazy ideas.
The good part- there is a fix. Once I got the implant life slowly changed for the better. My depression left, my interest in sex grew and I just felt more like a man if you know what I mean.

[Kodixx]

drayan123, probably depends on a guy's situation. A guy with low sex drive and infrequent relations its probably not as bad. But yeah for a guy with a healthy sex drive and used to frequent relations its very tough. So if that's you then you definitely aren't the only one.

- Chuck

I feel like after I got Ed I’ve lost my purpose and don’t have interest in anything am I the only one ?

[dan_bionic]

I feel like after I got Ed I’ve lost my purpose and don’t have interest in anything am I the only one ?

You are not alone with this feeling, having ED, I think many of us look for career, good cars, another funny things in life but in the bottom of our soul, we become lonesome wolfs. A relation-ship with no sex can't stand very long and you as a man will always be the one to feel guilty for not being able to keep your relation-ship.
I was married to 4 women and all for broke, I lost 40 years of my life for asexual marriages and ED.
Now since 2 years I live to the fullest and feel finally complete with with my body, my dick and myself!
Go for an implant ASAP, don't wait!
Dan

[FMLFML85]

Yes every day I tell myself that ED is killing my mind body and soul. I don’t want to do anything anymore. I never dream anymore. I lost my spirituality. I often believe this is hell that I’m experiencing while still being alive. I couldn’t even imagine giving a woman a back massage let alone having sex.

When I lost my colon I lost my ability to fart or poop. It was a relief to go use the bathroom and now that relief has vanished. With ED there is no more relief from sex. Theres no sex to balance my day or week against.

[Stevie Reno]

Yes…it amplified ever insecurity I had and made me feel useless…my first wife would give me blow jobs but they were almost sterile - I’d want to see/play with her tits and go down on her but she didn’t want me touching her. I could get erections but I would lose them…it didn’t matter as much with a blow job but before we quit trying intercourse I’d lose my erection and she would yell at me. She used ask me if I was gay…ask me if I was really a man…alcohol and work became my refuge. She went through a series of boy friends over the years and I always thought it was my fault.

When the pills came out I was in my thirties and they helped most of the time but still she never wanted me to touch her. In my late thirties I got sober and then got single. The best two decisions of my life. I meet someone and she was wonderful. The pills didn’t always work and she was ok with that. And it took a long time to unlearn some things - like racing to cum for fear of losing my erection - but she was ok with that as well. We found out how to love each other physically. She had never had an orgasm during intercourse so I always got her to cum before we even started intercourse.

So the ED (and associated PE) was a major problem but honestly, marrying the wrong person was probably equally to blame for many of my insecurities and fears. I know today that I’m very secure and comfortable in my own skin.

[LastHope]

I feel like after I got Ed I’ve lost my purpose and don’t have interest in anything am I the only one ?

I agree. We are built that way by evolution and passing on genes (gene survival) is the driving force behind every motivation in life. That doesn’t mean happiness can’t be hacked using other sensory methods and philosophies, just as the birth control hack opened the floodgates to unlimited sexual encounters without passing on genes.

[splitpeach]

Yes. But get over it. There are a lot worse lives. Like walking in on your wife getting railed by a 7ft Viking that works in VC who then frames you for white collar crime so you do 10 years getting sodomised by your cell mate, Jerome, so badly your sacrum gets crushed and you're now spending the rest of your life in a wheel chair outside Port Authority shouting at traffic

[UpNorth]

Yes…it amplified ever insecurity I had and made me feel useless…my first wife would give me blow jobs but they were almost sterile - I’d want to see/play with her tits and go down on her but she didn’t want me touching her. I could get erections but I would lose them…it didn’t matter as much with a blow job but before we quit trying intercourse I’d lose my erection and she would yell at me. She used ask me if I was gay…ask me if I was really a man…alcohol and work became my refuge. She went through a series of boy friends over the years and I always thought it was my fault.

When the pills came out I was in my thirties and they helped most of the time but still she never wanted me to touch her. In my late thirties I got sober and then got single. The best two decisions of my life. I meet someone and she was wonderful. The pills didn’t always work and she was ok with that. And it took a long time to unlearn some things - like racing to cum for fear of losing my erection - but she was ok with that as well. We found out how to love each other physically. She had never had an orgasm during intercourse so I always got her to cum before we even started intercourse.

So the ED (and associated PE) was a major problem but honestly, marrying the wrong person was probably equally to blame for many of my insecurities and fears. I know today that I’m very secure and comfortable in my own skin.

Stevie
I believe bad marriages are the cause of most ED victims.