danielocean wrote:It’s been about a year post surgery. No complications. Everything seems to be fine and venturing back into dating and the apps.
Honestly, being intimate with a girl, she is going to immediately feel the hard pump. The front tips are also somewhat noticeable, at least until the blood flow to that area.
The real question is there in a plausible reason for why one has a implant? No one wants to end up on one of those sites like ‘are we dating the same guy’ with the giant Scarlet letter labeled as some freak. Especially when dating pool is somewhat smaller and everyone knows everyone.
Perhaps complication from a enlarged prostate? Biking accident? Certainly do not want to claim any kind of cancer. It’s got a hold up to a Google search. Women these days are like NSA investigators.
I know there’s going be blowback from readers who are just like go out and enjoy it, but I’m just trying to take a rational approach.
OK I've been married for nearly 47 years, so maybe a bit naive, but are girls really that shallow now?
Also I don't think my pump or tips are noticeable unless under a very detailed examination.
Personally I would just tell the truth, if the subject even comes up. What you can do, non implanted guys can't
.In the moment I reckon you probably have less to worry about than you think.
Best wishes for your renewed sex life
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