Malleable implant question - comfort & concealability with trousers, tucked shirt, and a belt?

[FenderStrat_93]

Hey everyone! I know concealability of a malleable has been discussed quite a bit in a handful of malleable journals but I have a more specific question:

For guys with an MPP, are you able to wear pants with belt and tucked in shirt? How is the concealability in this situation? In this situation, what direction do you typically point it in to stow it?

I work in an office and the “uniform” is typically a nice pair of trousers, tucked in dress shirt, and a belt. I’m considering an MPP but was wondering how much of an issue this could be! Am I overthinking it?

[duke_cicero]

This is a reasonable question and you're not overthinking it. In my case, I hang slightly left just as I did before when I was erect. I'm able to sort of stow my penis in the left side of my trousers. No worries with tucking in a shirt, wearing a belt, etc.

[FenderStrat_93]

This is a reasonable question and you're not overthinking it. In my case, I hang slightly left just as I did before when I was erect. I'm able to sort of stow my penis in the left side of my trousers. No worries with tucking in a shirt, wearing a belt, etc.

Thanks Duke, I appreciate it. Any obvious bulge issues? And when it comes to stowing on left side of trousers, is it fairly comfortable for you?

[duke_cicero]

This is a reasonable question and you're not overthinking it. In my case, I hang slightly left just as I did before when I was erect. I'm able to sort of stow my penis in the left side of my trousers. No worries with tucking in a shirt, wearing a belt, etc.

Thanks Duke, I appreciate it. Any obvious bulge issues? And when it comes to stowing on left side of trousers, is it fairly comfortable for you?

As a natural "grower," I have more of a bulge than I did before—but it's not an issue. I think some people are worried that it will look like you're trying to hang a bath towel on your junk constantly. That's not how it looks after it softens up inside your body. Your body covers it in a thick layer of collagen (the capsule) and it behaves more like a normal part of your body.

For the first week or so, it sticks out pretty prominently. But I was at Christmas dinner just 2 weeks after surgery and it was great. I was sitting in kind of a hard chair, too, and I wasn't uncomfortable. I had sex at 7 weeks and it was incredible. But it got better and better every week, and I kept trying new things. The body is an amazing thing, so resilient and adaptive.

There is some adjustment with this kind of surgery. At 6 months (to the day, actually!) I'm still learning how to live with it, in little ways. But yesterday I wore jeans out to dinner without pain or issue. Two months ago, I had some serious irritation and soreness because the material was too snug and firm. You might not have the same issue. Everyone is different. At least in my case, it's true that every day it's a little different and a little better.

[FenderStrat_93]

This is a reasonable question and you're not overthinking it. In my case, I hang slightly left just as I did before when I was erect. I'm able to sort of stow my penis in the left side of my trousers. No worries with tucking in a shirt, wearing a belt, etc.

Thanks Duke, I appreciate it. Any obvious bulge issues? And when it comes to stowing on left side of trousers, is it fairly comfortable for you?

As a natural "grower," I have more of a bulge than I did before—but it's not an issue. I think some people are worried that it will look like you're trying to hang a bath towel on your junk constantly. That's not how it looks after it softens up inside your body. Your body covers it in a thick layer of collagen (the capsule) and it behaves more like a normal part of your body.

For the first week or so, it sticks out pretty prominently. But I was at Christmas dinner just 2 weeks after surgery and it was great. I was sitting in kind of a hard chair, too, and I wasn't uncomfortable. I had sex at 7 weeks and it was incredible. But it got better and better every week, and I kept trying new things. The body is an amazing thing, so resilient and adaptive.

There is some adjustment with this kind of surgery. At 6 months (to the day, actually!) I'm still learning how to live with it, in little ways. But yesterday I wore jeans out to dinner without pain or issue. Two months ago, I had some serious irritation and soreness because the material was too snug and firm. You might not have the same issue. Everyone is different. At least in my case, it's true that every day it's a little different and a little better.

Thanks for the detailed write up - and I do remember you talking in your malleable thread about the jeans issue, that’s awesome to hear it’s working out for you!

[LastHope]

I agree with Duke and couldn’t have said it better. I have to be in "uniform" once a month, and below is a thread with a couple of pictures from one of those days.

viewtopic.php?f=6&t=26485&p=254032#p254032

To reduce a noticeable bulge, working with the surgeon in choosing rods with good bend memory really helps. The only discomfort I experience is when sitting for long periods, but that’s been resolved since I started using a standing desk. No regrets when it comes to concealability and comfort. Is it 100% perfect for me? No, but it’s 80+ % perfect, and that’s a win in my book.