AmansinCali wrote:Minnesota,
What a great post Minnesota, I am so happy for you, I can just feel your joy!
Minnesota and I had the same implant on the same day and almost the same hour, only difference is I am 50 years older than Minnesota, we have compared our recovery since day one and it is remarkable how alike the recoveries have been. Minnesota is single, I have been married to the same wonderful woman for 55 years, so Minnesota had some concerns initially about his flaccid and was very self-conscious about it, but now you can see that is not an issue at all after a few weeks.
I have not used my new tool yet. My wife went to all my doctor appointments before and after the surgery, she heard the doctor say, "No sex for 6 weeks." and to my wife a rule is a rule; however, she has agreed to let me test fly this sucker this weekend, because I have my six week check on this coming Monday. The reason I was able to convince her is I am concerned about having a soft glans, so far, I have not been sexually excited when I have pumped up, so I have no idea what is going to happen. Just pumping up without sexual stimulation my glans is soft like Minnesota's. We decided to try it out so when we go to the doctor's office on Monday we will know if this is going to be a problem or not and hopefully find a solution. For the record, I had full glans engorgement with tri-mix injections. Minnesota, did you see any difference in your glans hardness between just pumping up and pumping up while having sex with those beautiful women? I will let you know what happens.
Many guys on FT are using small doses of daily Cialis and that has ended their glans engorgement problem and I am sure it will solve Minnesota's problem too. My problem is I cannot take any of the boner pills, I was on daily Cialis when I had an Anterior Ischemic Optic Neuropathy (AION) occur, which left me blind in my right eye. I have been to one of the highest rated Optic Neurologist on the west coast and he told me there is a correlation between AION events and the boner pills. He, plus my Ophthalmologist, plus my Internist have told me to NEVER take boner pills again, it is too much of a risk for my other eye. That was good enough for me! So, when I go to my appointment on Monday I want to know if glans engorgement is going to be a problem and if so, what can I do about it. Several on FT have used a tri-mix gel into the urethra a half hour or so before sex, if I need help, I will ask for a script for it.
Minnesota, I have a question for you. You didn't say if you had any problem cumming with your glans not being engorged. I think you would have mentioned it if you did, so I am assuming your orgasms were good and you didn't have to work harder than usual to get off. Please comment on that. If it doesn't affect my orgasm, it won't be a problem for me, but it might be for my wife who normally cums consistently during penetration. It stands to reason a big, bulging, throbbing glans would be better for the wife. Like I said, we are going to test it out, hopefully several times, before my Monday appointment. I will let you know how that goes.
The other question I have for you Minnesota, is when I pump up my penis begins to ache and as the time goes by the ache gets worse, by the time an hour is up I can't wait to deflate it. How's that going for you? Would we be better of cycling more times for a shorter duration? What is your experience and how are you cycling, time and frequency?
Thanks again for your explicit post, it helped me, and I am sure it will help others to know what to expect when your new dick goes to work. Please keep posting your experiences, that is what this forum is all about and what makes it so great.
Appreciate that Amansincali!! Always pumping me up and keeping me positive. It’s cool we can keep a side by side comparison for people at different points in their lives. And one single, one married for 55 years. So cool actually!
Your wife sounds like a beauty! She wants to make sure you don’t rush things.. that’s cool. I definitely was quick at it, but they gave me the go ahead. My glans do get bigger, but not hard. I now know what people mean by floppy. I am not sure if a girl would notice nice during sex. Blowjob, maybe.
wow it actually made you go completely blind in one eye? I’m sorry, I’d say that’s enough to not take them anymore!! I am going to try that cialis and if it doesn’t work I’ll be fine without it…
Good questions. As far as ejaculating, no issue. Actually, I don’t even fight it. I cum in like 3 minutes then go ahead i now don’t worry about PE or ED. Amazing really.
The other question I have for you Minnesota, is when I pump up my penis begins to ache and as the time goes by the ache gets worse, by the time an hour is up I can't wait to deflate it. How's that going for you? Would we be better of cycling more times for a shorter duration? What is your experience and how are you cycling, time and frequency?
To be honest, I haven’t been the best at cycling. But I use it once a day, so I make myself pump it full and then when I’m done I’ll wait 10 min. That gives me about 30 min a day with it pumped full. It just feel insanely full but I actually don’t hurt or ache anymore. I did probably 10 days ago, but after that way better… My penis has grew back to where it was too. I have read on here if it’s paid you shouldn’t fight it. Just maybe decrease your time and increase it in increments of 10 min each week possibly?
You’re welcome, AmansinCali. I thank you too. I look forward to seeing your name pop up, and I’m so glad we are on this journey together.
Cheers,