plant yes or no, big confusion in my head

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1day2Bbionic
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Re: plant yes or no, big confusion in my head

Postby 1day2Bbionic » Tue Jul 19, 2022 8:41 pm

I think since you are married and your wife is fine with your current situation that is probably your answer for now. Even though with an implant you can have sex for hours if your wife is fine with 15 minutes what good is the implant? I realize there are plenty of advantages to having an implant but if you can both have your orgasms with your natural dick why rush the implant. My situation is alot like yours, even if I could stay hard for hours my wife is good with 10-15 minutes and we both get off and we are satisfied. As long as the pills keep working I will be thankful for what I can still do. My wife just tried on a new swim suit for paddleboarding and I could feel the blood filling up as I was checking her out and Im not ready to give that feeling up. When that feeling no longer exists then I will know I need an implant. Anyway, just my opinion.....And on a side note I believe MK1965 gave you some really good advice

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Re: plant yes or no, big confusion in my head

Postby MK1965 » Tue Jul 19, 2022 10:23 pm

Frank,
When I look at your past medical history in your signature,
I can tell you you’re doing really good. Past MI, stents placed, bit of venous leak etc, you are doing much better then more then 50% of your peers.
Man, save your natural erections as long as it can satisfy your wife and yourself. We are getting older, not younger. Even if dick would go endlessly, our back and our heart will make us tired after 15 minutes.
Averaging 15 minutes of sex, gives full satisfaction to my wife and myself.
Many wives can not even go longer then 10-15 minutes.
Keep good spirit and each it from positive angle.
MK
IPP 9/5/18; TITAN OTR 18 +1cm RTE,Prostate Ca at 51 y/o; RARP 11/2/16, ED Post RP, Cialis, Viagra, VED,TRIMIX painful, BIMIX ineffective,lost 2+ inches of length after RP. Revision 12/2/20 by Dr Clavell, AMS 700 CX, L 21 R 21+1.5 RTE.

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Re: plant yes or no, big confusion in my head

Postby frank66665 » Wed Jul 20, 2022 9:16 am

thanks 1day2b, mk1965, in a few days I will start taking mesterolone it may be that the andrologist is right and I can keep an erection 5/10 more minutes, and it may be that I can also lower the doses of vardenafil / sildenafil, if so it would be ideal, I have very high testosterone, I had to lower from 125 to 100 to 83 mg of testosterone enanthate per week, because it was high above the maximum limit, now the andrologist says that he is caged and with mestorolone he should release him and I should be horny enough to keep an erection better
56, ED since 2010, pills work but not always and well, trt in progress improved but not so much, myocardial infarction january 2016, new stent september 2016, hypertension, venous on 1/23/23 titan one touch 22, no rte dottor Gabriele Antonini Italia

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Re: plant yes or no, big confusion in my head

Postby crazyjoe » Wed Jul 20, 2022 10:53 am

I agree with MK1965 -- go with it as long as you can and if at some point it fails to do what you want, c'mon back here for guidance on an implant.
75, used pills, injections -- all lost effectiveness. Titan implanted by Eid in Feb '22.

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Re: plant yes or no, big confusion in my head

Postby oldbeek » Wed Jul 20, 2022 12:04 pm

MK1965 wrote:
frank66665 wrote:I am really confused and torn, this situation is driving me crazy, I have to do it or it is advised not to do it at this stage, the pills in large doses still work, I cannot exaggerate, the side effects are annoying, plus I can fuck well 15 minutes , I can last 20/25 minutes while slowly losing erection, I would like to continue fucking at least 30 minutes well, what is your advice, do the implant or wait?


Frank,
Are you replacing your tires at 50% worn down?
Please, keep that working erections even if they are down to 50% of time usage. Nothing replaces blood filed penis, nothing.
If your wanted time for erection to hold and being able to use it for 20-25 minutes, that is still 67 - 84 % of time being able to use.
I am maybe a year older than you, but if ED wouldn’t been caused with prostate removal surgery, I would never get IPP installed.
For me nothing worked after RP. I tried Cialis,Viagra, VED, TRIMIX, BIMIX. Implant was my last option to get anything back.
I don’t want to discourage you from getting IPP just friendly warning.
MK

Nothing beats a blood filled dick. An implant only makes it hard. Implant does not fill out the glans and shaft with blood. Nerve endings in the glans is over half of the game. If I had any function I would not go to implant.
82, good health, RP 7-2017, all nerves taken , PSA 0.05, 4-18,, .07 1/19,.05 4/19, .03 11-21, .04 11-23, implanted 4-1-18, Infra-pubic, AMS lgx 15 cm with 5cm rte. Implant at USC Keck. Dr Boyd and Dr Loh Doyle 6.5 x 5, 800 AUS 7-21-20

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Re: plant yes or no, big confusion in my head

Postby Old Guy » Wed Jul 20, 2022 12:33 pm

My 2¢ here frank66665-
Pills lost their effect for me after 3-4 years. The side effects were terrible, migraines the next day. Then sometimes it wouldn't work, so disappointing and depressing.
Injections worked for 3 or so years. Sticking a needle in your dick takes some real nerves. When the injections began to fail it was even more depressing. My depression led me to say some nasty things to my lovely wife.
After my implant I had a tough recovery. Once healed and I figured out how to use this new thing, there is nothing better. It took time but all my sensation has returned. Sex is great again. My glans and penis swell up during sex, not sure why some say theirs doesn't.
Choice is a maybe useful tool or one you know is going to work every time, any time.
Good luck with your decision.
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Re: plant yes or no, big confusion in my head

Postby ShouldIwait » Wed Jul 20, 2022 12:37 pm

At least try injections first. Once you get over the idea of a needle in your dick (not that bad) the sex is amazing. Best sex ever. All the advantages of a natural blood erection and the knowledge you can go for hours!

If .20 ml BiMix still gave me rock hard erections that lasted for 3-4 hours, I would never have gone the IPP route. BUT, I'm only a week out from my surgery...maybe I will prefer the IPP and wish I got it sooner?
57, ED 10-15 years. Pills, Bi, Tri then Quad Mix Injections- all slowly less effective. IPP July 2022 (Penscrotal, Titan, 22 + 1) @6mo back to OEM--7.2"L x 5.5"w

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Re: plant yes or no, big confusion in my head

Postby frank66665 » Wed Jul 20, 2022 3:01 pm

thanks to all guys, in our misfortune we are lucky to have this community, each one gives his contribution of experiences lived and still lives, now my aurochs / andrologist who follows me for testosterone gave me proviron (mesterolone) we will see if I will have a rockier and longer lasting erection, he bets yes, my 20 minutes I would like to take them to 30, and maybe lowering the doses of the pills to the maximum allowed, other guys here who have used the pills with SUCCESS and then done Can an implant have their say if the pills worked for them for 20 minutes would they have the implant or would they stay with the pills?
56, ED since 2010, pills work but not always and well, trt in progress improved but not so much, myocardial infarction january 2016, new stent september 2016, hypertension, venous on 1/23/23 titan one touch 22, no rte dottor Gabriele Antonini Italia

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Re: plant yes or no, big confusion in my head

Postby Username1 » Wed Jul 20, 2022 4:22 pm

Sexual time is only part of the equation.
First to answer the question about sex, feeling, etc, is it the the same with implant vs before?
No it not. It’s different. Sensitivity is down, it takes a long time to climax, if at all.
Upside, my dick works, stays hard, brings a lot of pleasure to my friend. The. Other aspect rarely mentioned is sex now is on another level of intimacy, connectedness and joy.
I did injection in and while the joy of a blood filled dick is awesome, the downside was pain, shrinkage and scarring. In hindsight, I should have listened to my doc sooner and gotten implanted.
Implanted 5.25.21 Coldplast, 24cm. Dr Tajkarimi.

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Re: plant yes or no, big confusion in my head

Postby frank66665 » Wed Jul 20, 2022 5:17 pm

Username1 wrote:Sexual time is only part of the equation.
First to answer the question about sex, feeling, etc, is it the the same with implant vs before?
No it not. It’s different. Sensitivity is down, it takes a long time to climax, if at all.
Upside, my dick works, stays hard, brings a lot of pleasure to my friend. The. Other aspect rarely mentioned is sex now is on another level of intimacy, connectedness and joy.
I did injection in and while the joy of a blood filled dick is awesome, the downside was pain, shrinkage and scarring. In hindsight, I should have listened to my doc sooner and gotten implanted.

Username1 is excellent the pros / cons proposed by you, understood perfectly, the questions are: 1) if you could fuck 20 minutes with the pills would you have made the implant? 2) would it have been more fun and better sensations to fuck with an implant than 20 minutes with pills?
56, ED since 2010, pills work but not always and well, trt in progress improved but not so much, myocardial infarction january 2016, new stent september 2016, hypertension, venous on 1/23/23 titan one touch 22, no rte dottor Gabriele Antonini Italia


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