Performance Anxiety

[Leebert]

I had anxiety after implant, it was like when you first meet your soon to be wife thinking if everything will go well,lol. Now after a few tries and figuring out what works and what doesn't, it feels natural and comfortable with each other again. Have fun!

[stmfttr]

I had anxiety after implant, it was like when you first meet your soon to be wife thinking if everything will go well,lol. Now after a few tries and figuring out what works and what doesn't, it feels natural and comfortable with each other again. Have fun!

Leebert,
Yes...and it only gets better.
After 3 years post implant, we still "practice"...twice a week and we'll get it right eventually.
Practice makes perfect,
stmfttr

[Confusedjourney]

Wow I love all this advice and feedback thx

[crazyjoe]

sure, and now I worry if my glans will be engorged -- like I have to worry about something

[Confusedjourney]

I just had crazy sex with my wife I don’t know why I’m worried. It’s crazy I think I just worry whether or not my duck is hard enough during doggie style. I think maybe the gel confuses me but she certainly seems to be having a great time, so I need to stop thinking. We both rate our experience as a 10. Like I said I guess I’m just thinking way too much.

[Confusedjourney]

I worry about my duck and my Dick lol

[azmike]

Great post!


(quote="merrix"]I can relate to what you say somehow, and to what Time2Change says.
You can check My Journal for a lot on that topic.
I wouldn't call it performance anxiety, but for me there was a lot of habits developed from a life of various level of ED that needed to be unlearnt and that was not a walk in the park. Even my wife whom I have been with since my mid twenties had developed habits around my ED, and she had a learning curve as well to change her habits
Took time for both of us.
How to do it?
Let go. Be free. Own it. You can fuck like a king now, at least you've got no erection limitations.
Remember all that porn you watched, and you dreamed of being able to do what they did.
You can.
It's all up to you. And most integral in that fucking like a king concept is confidence.
Most difficult for me to get into my head was that time is not a constraint anymore. Time is your friend now, not your enemy.
Women prefer you to take your time, at least most of them do most of the time.
You have time. Your dick will never go down. Play around, learn what works for you and her.
You've got a different dick now with different pros and cons than a natural dick.
Con - you need to pump. There's no way around that.
Just make sure you take advantage of the pros instead of sitting with only the con.
The pros? You can do whatever the fuck you want. Do it. Your dick will never fail you.[/quote]