Just had another girl tell me she can’t feel me in her

[frwmw1]

This isn't an implant thing - it's too common.

I'd love to know what the statistics are for women shaming men like this, I would say most men have experienced some form of body shaming from women.

[544kenmatt]

I just saw your photo. You have a large cock. You have nothing to worry about, in my opinion.

[indusvalley]

Maybe you were boasting about your dick size and she said that comment to make you feel like shit and tell you that she's gotten bigger. Women can be mean like that. We don't know the full story.

Remember boys, a woman doesn't marry your dick, she marries your personality, dick is just the bonus. Honestly, I would dream of having a 5" girth. I am at 4.5" girth pre-op and going with the Titan. Really hope it increases my girth by 0.25" or 0.5" so I become 5" girth. That would be amazing!!

4.5" girth is average and 5" is above average. Be happy with what you have.

[irishguy]

Good advice by all here. Listen man I’m 4.5 girth and once I thrust hard and change things up and find positions that she prefers she orgasms all the time.. i promise you this is not your problem you have above average girth so keep that in your mind. As one of the lads said some women are size queens and that’s fair enough but some must be complete assholes to say stuff like that to men!! Couldn’t imagine if roles were reversed but anyways. I’d love to have 5 inch girth but too be honest my 4.5 is doing just grand. Maybe you are attracted to those type of girls coz you have said this has happened before right? So ya need to dig deep and figure out what that’s about more so then obsess about your girth!!

[irishguy]

I’ve just seen you pic after I wrote the post sorry to be rude but I think there’s far more to this story then meets the eye you have a near 7 inch cock with 5 inch girth. And some women have said they couldn’t feel you. Come on now It’s obviously about the type of woman you go for or maybe you treat them like crap and they say this to get back at you.. like have they said this during sex or after or how did you find out?

[hope794]

Bro, i think the same as the friends that have written before me. Studies say that 11-12 cm girth is the average.. So you're totally average or, at best, even slightly above average. If she "can't feel anything" she's the issue. Don't let this affect your mental, you're not the issue, you're average.

[Pamen116]

Thank you for the replies -

One question is did she “say” that - yes one female I asked how the sex was and she was just straight forward about it and said “it’s skinny” before that conversation she said I barely got off. I was nice to this girl. The second one was a girl I used to mess around with who recently I was talking to and asked her because I felt insecure about the last girl and She also said it was skinny, but she enjoyed the sex.


I’m just seeing a trend in retrospect about how women have been during sex with me and it’s as if they just want me to cum and they hate the sex. That’s up to recent.


I appreciate the encouragement guys. Even the slight rebuke/corrections. I do notice the wetter they get the less friction which could be the problem, it’s like I go in and out and feel nothing as well. I remember using VED pre implant and my girth was 5.5/6 and it would feel amazing, each thrust. Now I feel like a needle in a hay stack, maybe it is the women I’m choosing though like y’all are saying, I tend to attract certain (bad girl) females because of my tattoos and scene. Maybe I need to change that up and go to Barnes & Noble with a long sleeve lol.



Again to ask though did anyone see length and girth increase after 3 months?

[Lost Sheep]

Waynetho, frwmw1, darkflame, LeRoastBeef all made good points but Gt1956 has a question you should ask as well.

I ask, "Is she telling you this to help you have better sex with her or for some other reason?"

I also suggest that irishguy's advice preceeds my own first thought: Position. Some positions are better than others for letting the woman feel "full".

(edited to add, inspired by Gt1956's post below) Not only position, but movement. Research and read. There is plenty on the internet suggesting which movements stimulate which areas of a woman's genitals best. Also, just paying attention to her "signals" of what pleases her body and mind during sex. Respond to those signals, for they show the pathway to her (and your) satisfaction.

There are web sites that suggest positions and describe which positions provide better sensations for each partner. There are several I have seen (but do not recall them right now). Do some research and practice some "change-up) during sex. Surprise her. My girlfriend gets a LOT of satisfaction from the "doggy" position. Also, a variation on the missionary" position makes her feel tighter and you feel girthier - have HER legs together and your legs straddling her. Squeezing her legs together closes her vagina on your penis and increases the sensation she feels.

To answer your specific question, I did not see any increase in size. But I did not lose any size from my beet pre-E.D. size either. I got the implant, it appears, just in time, before I began to atrophy.

[Gt1956]

I realize that you may feel that you answered my question. But you danced around it. In order to get good advice you need to be open & honest. Is English your native language?
You said "I barely got off" is the use of "I" to mean you or her?
You have plenty of dick. The next thing is to look at technique. Are you trying to mimic thrusting that you see in porn? Porn sex is mainly for show. It's fine to do that for part of your sex act, but not as a main move. Thrusting provides very little clit stimulation. The clit is central to many womans enjoyment. "Grinding" is a proven method to put into your love making. Basically a series of pushing then relaxing into her pubic (clit) region. You might see examples of women mastrubating by "riding" on pillows or the arms of couches. Where is the thrusting there? Lots of benefits. She'll enjoy it a lot more & you'll last longer.
In short. Do not fuck like in porn. It is fake for the most part. That is why they call them actors & actresses. Think about it.

[barrylandon]

When erect, the girth of my penile shaft is 5". However, if my glans is engorged, it's girth measures 5-3/4". Since the glans is where the rubber meets the road so to speak, I would think that the girth of your glans is more important than the girth of your shaft.