Confessed injections to my girlfriend

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slipnslider
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Confessed injections to my girlfriend

Postby slipnslider » Thu Jul 08, 2021 1:35 am

I've been with a woman for 6 months now, using trimix the entire time. After a month or two I confessed I'd struggled with ED and usually use medication for it. She assumed it was pills and I let her, since she's super squeamish about needles and blood. Yesterday as we were having some deep discussions I went ahead and confessed that it wasn't pills, it's shots. She said she already knew. And was totally cool with it. She's accepted I can't do it spontaneously at any moment, or both in the afternoon and at night, but she says it seems to work well so she's fine with it.

It's a relief to stop worrying about hiding syringes and crap like that, or finding excuses to sneak off to the bathroom. I even told her if she's ever in the mood, just to tell me to go take a shot. She liked that idea.

We have a great sex life with the assistance of trimix. Sometimes I wonder if I should try sex without it again, just to see if I can have a natural response with her, but I think it would result in the same old problems.

One of the worst parts about ED is the shame. I hope everyone finds partners who help alleviate that.
44, ED problems began around age 28 when I was on finasteride for hair loss, and also got circumcised so I lost a lot of sensation. Pills gave me bad headaches and other side effects. Now using trimix 30/1/20. So far so good.

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Re: Confessed injections to my girlfriend

Postby Fran4524 » Thu Jul 08, 2021 5:33 am

Oh! This post is a big hope to us! Thank you!
-1993
-Erection problems since 4 years
-I did jelqs and it is posible I injuried, but I hace to say that ED episodes began before I did jelq.
-Having sex with 30mg of tadalafilo

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Re: Confessed injections to my girlfriend

Postby GoodWood » Thu Jul 08, 2021 7:43 am

Congrats on navigating that successfully. She sounds like a cool girlfriend.
55yo, NYC. ED started at 40. 50 units BiMix + Atropine (Pap 30/Phen 6/Atr 0.2). Prostaglandins caused aching. Doses increasing. A cock ring helps. Phallosan Forte tension devise to maintain size. Eager to talk about implant experiences.

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Re: Confessed injections to my girlfriend

Postby Cigar56 » Fri Jul 09, 2021 8:27 am

Slipinslider,

Congratulations on the improvement in your sex life. My theory is that women who really enjoy sex don't care how we get hard. They just want us to get hard.
I've tried everything -- pills, injections pumps -- and now I am at the final frontier.

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Re: Confessed injections to my girlfriend

Postby slipnslider » Fri Jul 09, 2021 10:51 pm

Cigar56 wrote:Slipinslider,

Congratulations on the improvement in your sex life. My theory is that women who really enjoy sex don't care how we get hard. They just want us to get hard.


She's definitely one of those women. She might be a keeper.

Once you've had a woman who really enjoys sex, it's impossible to settle down with one who doesn't.
44, ED problems began around age 28 when I was on finasteride for hair loss, and also got circumcised so I lost a lot of sensation. Pills gave me bad headaches and other side effects. Now using trimix 30/1/20. So far so good.

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Re: Confessed injections to my girlfriend

Postby slipnslider » Mon Jul 19, 2021 1:55 pm

A little update to my story.

Telling my GF about my injections allowed an extra benefit - I can use less of the drug.

When I was keeping it a secret, I was probably doing a few units more than I needed, just to be sure it worked and to give her an amazing experience. But then I'd stay hard too long and worry about damage.

Now that she's aware and supportive, I have less of a fear of it not working, since I know she won't judge me and I could just do a second small additional injection if needed.

This morning, we even had sex for the first time without any drugs or injections. She's horniest in the morning and was just moaning and rubbing on me, we fooled around, I got semi hard. I warned her that it might not work, but since I wasn't worried about her judging me or other bad reactions, I went ahead and inserted into her, and although I was softer than she's ever seen me during sex, she still enjoyed it, and i was able to orgasm. So even though I didn't use trimix this morning, I still feel like I owe that success to trimix since it has given be the confidence to know I can please my woman if I need to.
44, ED problems began around age 28 when I was on finasteride for hair loss, and also got circumcised so I lost a lot of sensation. Pills gave me bad headaches and other side effects. Now using trimix 30/1/20. So far so good.

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Re: Confessed injections to my girlfriend

Postby confused95 » Mon Jul 19, 2021 2:56 pm

Good move!
Congrats!
26yo from Italy. Psychogenic ed since dec 2019, got worse in Jan 2021. On Cialis 5mg every 24hrs, it works! But masturbation and sex bring me a lot of anxiety. On talk-therapy.
Update: diagnosed with slight Peyronie’s, investigating more on that

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Re: Confessed injections to my girlfriend

Postby Stew52 » Mon Jul 19, 2021 4:57 pm

slipnslider wrote: Sometimes I wonder if I should try sex without it again, just to see if I can have a natural response with her, but I think it would result in the same old problems.

My wife was a bit of a purist, at first especially and resisted a bit, but even now and wants to try "naturally", but after 10 minutes of squirming around with a noodle, she eagerly says, "OK go do it" with that look. Since I seem to have terminal anorgasmia, she knows I'm not in it for me, purely for her, so why not ride that pony good and hard.
NOT an MD. 71, M51 yrs, CenTX US. Inj since 12/2016, a yr after pills stopped working. Caverject for a yr. 1/2018 Tri-Mix at 30 pap/2 phent/60 pge @0.3ml, now 0.5ml 80mcg/ml PGE1. DE/Anorgasmia setting in since 5/2019, worse now.


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