Trimix and PE

[sogwap]

Thanks guys for all the comments and suggestions, its quite helpful.

Sog, a couple of suggestions. How about when your wife is on top you wear a condom or cock sleeve to desensitize your penis? Or, if that wouldn't go over, how about when she is riding you think about taxes or some other horrible thing? Once she gets off, you can pound and get off? Just some thoughts.

Her biggest disappointment with our sex life, has been first the years I struggled with ED. And second the Woman on Top position is her favorite. But because of my ED, I wasnt able to do it. Now that she can get on top. I think we both need to learn how to make it better for her.
This may be TMI but of the several times we tried it (recently), it felt quite ruff making it uncomfortable for me. I wanted to say, lets slow down a bit, enjoy the moment and the connection. It's not a race to the finish.

Now that I think about it, we need to discuss this, Since using Trimix only once did I lose it, Where I stopped to prevent myself from coming. Otherwise the erection with Trimix last from start to well past finishing the sex act.

[solvingadream]

This may be TMI but of the several times we tried it (recently), it felt quite ruff making it uncomfortable for me. I wanted to say, lets slow down a bit, enjoy the moment and the connection. It's not a race to the finish.

Now that I think about it, we need to discuss this, Since using Trimix only once did I lose it, Where I stopped to prevent myself from coming. Otherwise, the erection with Trimix lasts from the start to well past finishing the sex act.

I don't believe any of this conversation is TMI, Sog. We've all been there. I have very much avoided my wife being on top since I have a history of being less than 100% hard, I greatly fear my penis being bent over, and having a penile injury.

As far as your "ruff" comment. Do you mean not perfectly lubricated? Like skin pulling, almost skin pinching? My wife and I use this lube, it really does the job. The only time it starts to dry is when we have a fan going in the room (often). So, we use this lube every time. My wife also has a drawer full of sex toys we work into the mix, just about every time. The larger ones use quite a lot of lube, hence the jumbo size.

Anyway, maybe if you use a bit of thick lube, and think about taxes, baseball, or something horrible or grim, you can last until she can get completely off.

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[solvingadream]

Or do you mean "ruff" as in she's really on top driving hard? Honestly, that would scare the crap out of me. I would fear that if she misjudged, just a little, my dick might bend badly. With my wife, she really doesn't like on top, as it's much more physical work, we both prefer doggie, and I can pound hard that way. She also uses the original magic wand (plugs in, powerful), to stimulate her clit at the same time. Often, we can climax at the same time.

[sogwap]

I don't believe any of this conversation is TMI, Sog. We've all been there. I have very much avoided my wife being on top since I have a history of being less than 100% hard, I greatly fear my penis being bent over, and having a penile injury.

As far as your "ruff" comment. Do you mean not perfectly lubricated?

Since using Trimix and fuller erections, Ive found I need to add lube to my self. (She's always used lube)

By ruff I mean two things, First the erection was hard and ached a bit. Plus she was rubbing my pubic bone with a full back and forth motion causing further discomfort.

I tried to be accommodating because I know she likes that position. I was trying to get her to not be so agressive. But then she got off, and in the conversation that followed, said she's fucked other guys and they loved it. I like it also, but I was simply trying to get us both in sync.

[AnotherOldMan]

said she's fucked other guys and they loved it.

That seems like a totally heartless and nonproductive attack.