SEX using VED

Specific talk about pumps: Questions, hints, recommendations, etc.
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SEX using VED

Postby Vlad10 » Wed Nov 09, 2022 9:23 am

I’m young but somehow I have difficulty with achieving erection. So I'm just wondering if VED is possible to use just before intercourse and somehow don't let the girl know about the pump and the ring?
I haven't use the pump yet but I'm just have theoretical scenario) And it will be great if you guys can tell me how to do it)
Now I have 3 big questions:
1. Timing. Just before intercourse go to the bathroom and pump it? How long time it takes? If it takes 2-3 min. - that's fine, if it takes 10-15 min - that’s the fiasco of my theoretical scenario)
2. Cock ring removal. If I want to be "the incognito pump user" I need to remove the ring with a slight movement of the hand, like an experienced magician, just before take my pants off). I saw adjustable cock ring with button so I think it should be easy to take off by one hand fast.
3. Gel. I saw video and read yours messages that I need to put a lot of gel. That's not good due to my incognito plan. Maybe there is some kind of pump without necessity of using gel?

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Re: SEX using VED

Postby Mazzio » Wed Nov 09, 2022 12:15 pm

There are too many issues in your scenario. It will not work. Try pill instead.
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Re: SEX using VED

Postby Old Guy » Wed Nov 09, 2022 1:15 pm

Not going to work.
1. Timing- it can take quite a while to inflate in a VED to a decent erection.
2. Cock Ring- Don't think there is any way to "magically" make the ring disappear. And once you remove it your erection will start to diminish.
3. Gel- Every device requires gel or lube of some sort. Without it your penis skin will be rubbed raw.
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Re: SEX using VED

Postby sogwap » Wed Nov 09, 2022 2:29 pm

I would first tell you to try it first, you will learn fairly quickly. How it works.
1. If it will even work to get a decent erection.
2. The necessary use of cock ring.
3. How much gel is needed.

Doubtful you will get a usable erection in 2-3 minutes.
As far as cock ring leave it on, I've used one for 20 years. Considering you are waning to to use VED, without cock ring you will most likely lose your erection, And if you didn't lose your erection I doubt you would need VED

Have you tried Cialis or Viagra? It may be all that you need.
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Re: SEX using VED

Postby dtwarren1942 » Wed Nov 09, 2022 4:29 pm

I do a lot of pumping for both therapy a and for enhancement which has conditioned my dick so when I use a VED, I can achieve a hard erection in under two minutes.

I agree there’s no magical way to remove a constriction band that is tight enough to maintain an erection. However Osbon tension bands are not that obtrusive though it can be seen if she goes down on you.

Gel should always be used; however, a good water soluble gel provides you with a nice slippery erection.

You can always tell your partner that a pumped and banded erection is a bigger/harder erection which can provide more pleasure.
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Re: SEX using VED

Postby AnotherOldMan » Fri Nov 11, 2022 8:26 am

the incognito pump user

I can't imagine a scenario where that could be consistently successful.
Married 50+ years. Use VED for sex and do
daily exercises with both water and vacuum pumps.

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Re: SEX using VED

Postby Vlad10 » Fri Nov 11, 2022 10:32 am

Thank you all guys for your advices! Now it's obvious that I don't need VED cause it won't makes a trick for me as the pills did't.

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Re: SEX using VED

Postby Alan810 » Fri Nov 11, 2022 6:54 pm

I agree with Dtwarren1942. There is no way to pump, place the rings, hide the ring and maintain an erection. I suggest you discuss it openly with your partner. My wife initially thought I was crazy but the VED results changed her outooo9k on it. She sometimes assists a little in the 1-1/2 to 2 minute process. Lastly, she objected early on to the feel of the Osbon Rings so I put a rubber shield over them. I put it on between the VED and my groin and move it on top of the rings when I remove the pump.
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