VED for sex, beginner

[Al1962]

Pills help, yet not enough for much PIV sex. Can penetrate but then it is a lot of work to not pull out to far and to push in slowly so I can tell I am actually moving.
I have the lower priced EDP from Reach Medical and use one of their rings. This does give a firm erection, just not what I was hoping for I guess. Not quite as stable as I would like and definitely would not be as firm after 30 minutes. I should probably try two rings. I looked up the foam sleeve/base support someone mentioned and that would probably help but chickened out when they require order by phone.
P.S. still have not had an orgasm with ring on. I need to improve my cardio/stamina for PIV. Our effort to let my assistant do all the work orally, failed when a sharp tooth just hurt to much. Spent the past week working up the courage to try this again maybe tomorrow.