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3rd-Nut wrote:

David_R wrote:The whole issue of being more comfortable with a male nurse/doctor vs. with a female nurse/doctor seems to vary with the individual. I prefer a male doctor and nurse down there since we are all guys. But I also know that some guys are more comfortable with a female doctor or nurse because they feel weird having another guy "handling their junk." Up to the individual, I think.

I am just the opposite, I prefer female nurses. If you read my experience "Reaction to Implant in Hospital" a few days ago where I had back surgery.....several things happened. I told about the nurse that seemed to like taking advantage of cleaning my catheterized penis....or seemed to like getting several looks and feels of it. At that time, my main nurse was a male named Jake. As I mentioned, all that was covering me at the time or sometimes was the regular hospital gown. About an hour after that nice female nurse took her last grope and eyeful of my penis, Jake and another male nurse came in with large hospital pants and put them on me. I kind of felt that they did not like the competition.

When I was taken to a regular room I had nice looking, female nurses. Each time I had to urinate I would get up and go into the bathroom to urinate into the handheld urinal, since they wanted it measured. They always asked if I needed help and I said, "No". But they still followed me in there anyway, and would come around in front of me to watch me standing there while I dropped the pants and placed my large penis into the container to urinate. They would then take the urinal and help pull the pants up over my penis and get me back into bed. I don't think it was my imagination that they paid more attention to me and my larger, Shower implanted penis ( I was a Grower before prostate surgery) than they normally would have. They each wanted to take a good look at it, sometimes it was 2 of them at a time wanting to help. I am sure that they were not aware that I was implanted.
I did enjoy their adoring attention. As they say, "When you got it flaunt it." I did not feel in the least shy of my exposure or showing them my "Junk", but rather proud of it. That certainly was the only part of any so-called pleasure I had with hospital stay. One nurse asked if she could bath me, but after several days in the bed, all I wanted was a shower and to wash my hair. While I was showering she did pull the shower curtain back several times to watch that I was doing okay.
I can say that the implant has given me more sexual confidence.

Had I been in front of male nurses I would not have felt as comfortable. I don't really feel comfortable with other guys close to my "Junk".

bldoink wrote:In a medical setting it makes no difference to me. I'm capable of just switching off that part of my mind for doctors office visits. In those situations I just don't give a crap.

Larry10625 wrote:

3rd-Nut wrote:

David_R wrote:The whole issue of being more comfortable with a male nurse/doctor vs. with a female nurse/doctor seems to vary with the individual. I prefer a male doctor and nurse down there since we are all guys. But I also know that some guys are more comfortable with a female doctor or nurse because they feel weird having another guy "handling their junk." Up to the individual, I think.

I am just the opposite, I prefer female nurses. If you read my experience "Reaction to Implant in Hospital" a few days ago where I had back surgery.....several things happened. I told about the nurse that seemed to like taking advantage of cleaning my catheterized penis....or seemed to like getting several looks and feels of it. At that time, my main nurse was a male named Jake. As I mentioned, all that was covering me at the time or sometimes was the regular hospital gown. About an hour after that nice female nurse took her last grope and eyeful of my penis, Jake and another male nurse came in with large hospital pants and put them on me. I kind of felt that they did not like the competition.

When I was taken to a regular room I had nice looking, female nurses. Each time I had to urinate I would get up and go into the bathroom to urinate into the handheld urinal, since they wanted it measured. They always asked if I needed help and I said, "No". But they still followed me in there anyway, and would come around in front of me to watch me standing there while I dropped the pants and placed my large penis into the container to urinate. They would then take the urinal and help pull the pants up over my penis and get me back into bed. I don't think it was my imagination that they paid more attention to me and my larger, Shower implanted penis ( I was a Grower before prostate surgery) than they normally would have. They each wanted to take a good look at it, sometimes it was 2 of them at a time wanting to help. I am sure that they were not aware that I was implanted.
I did enjoy their adoring attention. As they say, "When you got it flaunt it." I did not feel in the least shy of my exposure or showing them my "Junk", but rather proud of it. That certainly was the only part of any so-called pleasure I had with hospital stay. One nurse asked if she could bath me, but after several days in the bed, all I wanted was a shower and to wash my hair. While I was showering she did pull the shower curtain back several times to watch that I was doing okay.
I can say that the implant has given me more sexual confidence.

Had I been in front of male nurses I would not have felt as comfortable. I don't really feel comfortable with other guys close to my "Junk".

Jesus, just how BIG is it?

Larry

Larry10625 wrote: Now, my junk has been handled so much, I just don't care anymore.

Larry

alibaba wrote:

Larry10625 wrote: Now, my junk has been handled so much, I just don't care anymore.

Larry

Agreed. All my inhibitions left about 10 years ago. Cathetors, nurses, doctors, students, ultrasounds. My dick and balls have been handled more than a 1966 copper penny.
I was asked again this week if I wanted to change into a gown or just take off my clothes and lay on the CT scanner table. I told her I do not need to go change, my modesty is gone. While setting up the i.v's she said I think we need to throw a sheet over that and did. I hope it did not set her standards for a future husband.

alibaba wrote:I hope it did not set her standards for a future husband.

Donnie2016 wrote:We are all different. I have always been comfortable around men. A man touching my 'jewels' doesn't bother me at all. The only woman I am comfortable with is my wife.
donnie1954@mail.com

Mustang64 wrote:

Donnie2016 wrote:We are all different. I have always been comfortable around men. A man touching my 'jewels' doesn't bother me at all. The only woman I am comfortable with is my wife.
donnie1954@mail.com

Although in most situations I'm neither modest nor shy, what i will tolerate vs what I prefer varies. I know that medical professionals and healthcare providers (whether doctor, nurse, imaging tech, LMT) aren't supposed to make comments on body parts or clothing or relative sizes or presence/absence of hair or piercings or tattoos or anything else unless it is related to what they are doing... but it seems to me that I can relate to and interact better with men when i'm in a state of undress. If i'm clothed i really don't mind either way.

My negative experiences have been with women service providers acting as if they were doing me a favor by even being in the same room as me when I didn't select them, didn't want to be there, and especially not with them-- i was directed into a given room and told what to do. I have had (female) nurses once or twice ask me if I minded them being in the room while the doctor was there, I'm sure as a formality on their side because they didn't expect me to say, "Yes I do mind, thank you for asking. Could you shut the door on your way out?"

It is very rare for me to have male service provider act uncomfortable when i was (un)dressed as the situation/procedure required.

For me it boils down to "if I feel like i make you uncomfortable, i'm not comfortable."