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My first experience with my dick being handled was for my vasectomy. A beautiful young female nurse came into the room where I was lying on the table for the procedure. Without saying a word she came over and lifted my gown and scared the crap out of me. She dry shaved me at the speed of light with a single edge safety razor, all the while stretching my dick upwards, grasping it with her thumb and first finger. Then she quickly sprayed it with an iodine looking solution that was ice cold, literally soaked me with it. Thankfully she left before the cold shrinkage started! (Just as an aside, the doctor who did my vasectomy had a frequent full upper body tick. He'd stop, put his arms down at his side and get spastic for a few seconds before resuming his work in my ball sack. THAT was very unnerving to say the least!).

Another time, after one of the 18 major surgeries I've had on my intestines, I developed major complications and was nearly bedridden another 6 months at the hospital. I became extremely complacent about not having myself exposed when the gown would begin bunching up. I stopped caring about it altogether and would remain exposed when a nurse came into the room.

A funny memory I have at times involved a stripper I hooked up with once after her shift at a local nightclub. She had a sister who was also a nude dancer. They took me back to their motel room for a memorable night. Then they made a proposition to me I shudder to even remember. They wanted to take me on the road with them and train me to be a nude male dancer, manage my career and everything. They claimed that with my looks I'd make a lot of money with them. They were at my favorite club another week and I never went back once to see them again. My biggest issue was how I would explain it to my mom! I've watched a few porn videos of male dancers getting one bj after another from a room full of beautiful women. Even THAT doesn't make me regret passing on their offer!

Oh my. That was pretty much a story)

graymare wrote: I am considering going through the training and becoming a MUTA. Am I nuts? Would you do it?

I'd be more inclined to do that than to purposely got to a male only nude hang out. If I had a doctor or instructor I knew and who I respected, and he/she expressed a need and asked me to do it, I'd probably to it. Alternatively, I'd also do it for reasonable compensation if it wasn't overly time consuming. I'm not sure how often I'd be willing to do it though. I've never heard of such a thing before, although it makes sense. No, I don't think you'd be nuts.

Being a part of the organized BDSM/Kink community for the past 20 years and attending fetish clubs all over the U S and Canada; nudity is just an accepted norm. Medical or everyday, Im cool with it all.

I used a female doctor with female nurses for my surgery.

I really don't get any feelings of well being or pleasure being in a group of naked people. I do like wearing very little or nothing when I can in my home. I used to be embarrassed naked in front of others. With my ED journey and other health issues that has gone. So if there is a reason to be naked I am fine with it. I just don't seek it out or avoid it. It is just what is required from time to time.

Hunchback wrote:My wife goes to a man gynecologist

I think most women are used to having a male gynecologist since that is so common. Men having a female urologist is not that common at all though.

Greg1956 wrote:an outdoor body painting event

Years ago I was at a clothing optional men's weekend retreat where body painting was encouraged on Saturday afternoon. I remember some of the guys being quite creative when having their genitals painted: cut guys, for example, would have the head of their dicks painted a different color than the shaft, and uncut guys would have that whole area painted and their dick was made to be the trunk of an elephant. (I never did body painting myself, but it was a fun thing to see how creative some guys would be; other guys, however, just painted their bodies the same color, head to toe and everything in between, and they looked great, too.)

Dear Friends,

Rectal cancer treatment left me with ED, a 15 inch scar and a colostomy bag on my stomach, no belly button and butt hole. That’s still not gonna make me shy. I have several girlfriends in their 20’s and 30’s and they have no problem with my deformity so why should I?

It’s all in our head.
All the best!

newtoed wrote:Dear Friends,

Rectal cancer treatment left me with ED, a 15 inch scar and a colostomy bag on my stomach, no belly button and butt hole. That’s still not gonna make me shy. I have several girlfriends in their 20’s and 30’s and they have no problem with my deformity so why should I?

It’s all in our head.
All the best!

A serious illness/disease/surgery can certainly change our perspectives and show us what truly matters in life. I think it is fantastic that the situation life threw at you is not stopping you from living the life you want to live. Best wishes to you.

Greg

I never associated being nude with being sexual. We all are born naked, we should be more embarrassed by the fact we're trying to cover up something so natural.