a calamity has ruined my life my sex life is over

[hankthefrank]

im only 23 but i have extreme pain from this illness, and doctors told me the only way we can help you is by surgery

its called bilateral orchiectomy the surgical removal of my testicles

they told me that theres a medicine but that it could be dangerous for heart and liver so they said surgical operation is better in my case.

i was getting better even posted it on here but now everything has crashed down again

implants would be of no use since my testicles will be gone

please pray for me

[Comatose]

I may be wrong but I don't think losing your testicles results in a loss of orgasms. It's just that you won't be able to cum any more and make babies.

[bldoink]

im only 23 but i have extreme pain from this illness, and doctors told me the only way we can help you is by surgery, its called bilateral orchiectomy the surgical removal of my testicles.

please pray for me

I would sure as heck get a second and third opinion from totally different medical offices before that surgery. Other than cancer I don't understand the necessity.

On the other hand I have a friend that lost both of his nuts in a military skydiving incident many years ago. He's had a very active sex life all these years. He is, of course, on testosterone to compensate for lost hormone production. He also has two silicone nuts in his sack just for cosmetics. He has a wife but no children. If you must go ahead with this procedure you should consider having your sperm frozen.

Edit to add: He was very sexually active with numerous women as a single before getting married.

[Kodixx]

hankthefrank, I'm very sorry to hear of your situation. The story relayed by bldoink should give you positive expectations for the future even if the path ahead is challenging. And I agree that as with almost all critical decisions, you should get multiple assessments and opinions. Praying for you.

- Chuck

im only 23 but i have extreme pain from this illness, and doctors told me the only way we can help you is by surgery

[ElbowRoom]

I believe you'll be able to function normally with weekly testosterone injections, just as many men on TRT do.

[colev939]

I’m sorry you’re going through all this pain and uncertainty at such a young age. It’s understandable to feel overwhelmed. Just know you’re not alone, and it’s okay to lean on people who care about you.

[Mijudac79]

I’m so sorry that you’re going through this, dear boy.the advice you’ve been given here is mostly correct, in that testosterone injections will keep you functioning as a man. I know of three fellows who have had double orchiectomies and function quite well
Do, by all means get other opinions, though
What caused this problem, if I may ask? I didn’t see any posts about It?
Don’t despair, you can get through this.

[LeTigre88]

I may be wrong but I don't think losing your testicles results in a loss of orgasms. It's just that you won't be able to cum any more and make babies.

I'm sorry you are going through this.
But, after 2nd and third opinions, if this is your only path, you should still be able to cum.
Your testes only contribute approx 5% of the total volume of semen. They supply hormones but as other note those can be replaced.
Best wishes.